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Ok Who's really the "Boss" in your household? The Husband or the Wife, which one makes the final decisions on most if not all the "major" issues"? Or should it be 50/50? Or ? :wah:

Basically, it's 50/50. One time my husband did buy a vehicle without me even seeing it and it wasn't pretty around here LOL.

50/50 ~ we both have different areas of expertise

cars wrote: Ok Who's really the "Boss" in your household? The Husband or the Wife, which one makes the final decisions on most if not all the "major" issues"? Or should it be 50/50? Or ?


What's a "major issue" ?

i have the gun. ...

lady cop wrote: i have the gun. ...


Hahaha lady cop. Good answer!

Peg wrote: Hahaha lady cop. Good answer!


I agree, Lady Cop that was funny I laughed out loud!!

Cars

Bill Sikes wrote: What's a "major issue" ?


If you need to ask, it seems that kind of answers it.

Peg wrote: Hahaha lady cop. Good answer!
i was just kidding! i don't really need semi-automatic persuasion with my darling, however, the cuffs do come in handy on occasion.....

cars wrote: If you need to ask, it seems that kind of answers it.


I don't understand.

lady cop wrote: i was just kidding! i don't really need semi-automatic persuasion with my darling, however, the cuffs do come in handy on occasion.....
:wah: And all this time I've been telling my guy tales of how the preying mantis rips off the head of her mate when she's done with him....Your way sounds quicker, LC!



To answer the question, it was my husband who made all the decisions when we were married. All of them. Beyond reason.



Today, since I am single, I make all the decisions for myself. When I have choices to make that affect my relationship, then we discuss them - but so far he's always been supportive. Pretty cool

Bill Sikes wrote: I don't understand.


Bill, only fooling with you! And I'm pretty sure you're are fooling to. "listing just a few Major Issues": Buy a new car, house, where to live, manage the finances, investing in stockmarket and how much and in what, plan on or not having children, etc. :wah: (Life altering things)

These type of major issues it would seem should be discussed in detail between the Husband & Wife as "partners". Each with 50/50 equal input!

Cars

Well.. usually me, but the dogs do seem to get their way an aweful lot...

In Ireland, most men will tell other men, I'm the BOSS. But deep down its the Woman Wife.

Ask the Mrs. :-6

If I get a chance to get a word in edgeways I'll ask her.

Andy Capp

"home is where you hang your head"

gmc wrote: If I get a chance to get a word in edgeways I'll ask her.


I'm the Boss, and oh I just forgot what else my wife told me to say!!!

Cars

lady cop wrote: i was just kidding! i don't really need semi-automatic persuasion with my darling, however, the cuffs do come in handy on occasion.....




Lady Cop, how puuuurrrrfectly SHOCKING!! Now just what WOULD

Miss Manners say hmmm?!?!?!?

My husband and I are 60/40 most of the time, and it switches back and

forth depending on the situation. Except there IS a certain feline member

of the household I got talked into against my better judgement...

it seems to me that the sea horse has the right idea..its the male in that partnership that has the babies!!!! I say go seahorse!

Who would dare argue with a Lady Cop. :wah:

capt_buzzard wrote: Who would dare argue with a Lady Cop. :wah:
please feel free! i love a good discussion. hey, i have no jurisdiction here! as for my honey, he knows i am really a creampuff. :-4