Clancy wrote: At age10. I had to get my younger brother ready for school. (Go by bus) As both parents worked.. After school return home, I had house keys . Start fire in grate if weather was cold.
Through the years I learned how to cook breakfasts, and dinners. I can clean, vac, etc, I refuse to live in sh*t, or go hungry. Most of my mates could do the same. Anyone who can't do any of these, is just a lazy bastard, because none of it requires any degree of skill. It's a basic requirement, so anyone who cant feed themselves if they're hungry, or know where to get TP to clean their own arse has a major problem.
If cooking a meal is woman's work, why are all top chef's male? I wouldn't live with a person who hadn't the basic ideas of how to keep a house/area clean, or sit there in need to use the bathroom because they couldn't find TP I'd hand them a box of confetti and tell the lazy bastard to improvise just to see the look on their face.
Re: "Is it true that "men don't care"? I'm 100% hetro male, and forgive me for saying this, but your friend has accepted the way he is. If he went into the forces (military) they would knock that out of him. I just find it incredible that with every couple having to work to have anything approaching a life, that a few can't fend for themselves. I could say more like, was your friends partner at his mothers t*t till he was twenty? did she wipe his arse for him?? Your friend doesn't need to wake herself up. She needs to wake him up, or she' will be carrying him for the rest of her life.
Making something to eat isn't an art form, nor is cleaning up after yourself.
Q : Does she (your friend) want to be burdened with everything around the house till she's old and grey?
Q. What would happen (God forbid) If your friend was taken ill, would the lazy bastard go back to his mother??
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I wanna marry Clancy:-4
