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OK, y'all know that the wedding is supposed to take place at the beautiful clubhouse of an affiliated club, about 40 minutes from where we live and halfway between us and the rest of my family.

Well. With the new club that Bullet has joined, they have property in Lake George that could be perfect. A full kitchen, lofts to sleep about 20 people, huge acerage for people to bring their RV's and what-not and camp if they want to. Beautifully scenic, all woods and a gorgeous pond.

To use this place will cost us exactly nothing. The thing is, it's over 2 hours away. No invitations have been sent out yet, so what do you all think? Am I crazy for considering changing the location at this time?

It depends on the stress levels involved, BR. If it isn't stressful to change the venue at this stage then it would make sense to go for it.

Theia, it wouldn't stress me out in the slightest, or Bullet. I'm concerned mostly about my mother, who is one of those, panick-at-the-drop-of-a-hat, "holy crap nothing about this will ever work, everything is going to go wrong" type of people. I'd call her and talk to her about it right away, except she's in Florida and I can't just call her up. I have to wait for her to call me.

I'm SO leaning towards using the club property up north, it sounds like a better way to go all around, aside from the money.

I really need to kick this around my head a bit more. I'm sure input here will help me decide, too. I know others will be along with their ideas, thank God.

I was "projecting" a bit there, BR because I'm a person who can easily get stressed at unexpected changes or even just changes to the status quo! I can see your point about your mother...does it help if she knows you're coping with whatever change it is in an unstressful way? I know with my mother that if I sound confident and sure of what I'm doing, her stress levels seem to lessen a bit. Ultimately it has to be what you and Bullet really want and it sounds as if you really like the idea of the new venue.

Do what pleases you BR. It's your day and not your mothers. Tell her all she has to do is turn up and be supportive. Nothing to panic about. It sounds gorgeous

Thats it... my mind is gone.. I thought you were married. Thought it took place last year.

weeder wrote: Thats it... my mind is gone.. I thought you were married. Thought it took place last year.


It did, after the "gun gone missing" and all. Hard story to follow.:rolleyes:

Thank You God.... and stupid cowboy tricks. I can mentally manage another day:D

I would say its you and your husbands day if the place is perfect go for it people will understand maybe you could hire a small coach to take anyone without transport considering bed and board is free .good luck.

Its your wedding. Do what pleases you. If you want the wedding on a mountain top then by all means have it on a mountain top. If you want to move it, move it.

(If your having calimari no one will come anyway)

If your mother is your only drawback in changing this, you could easily make whatever decisions you want. All you need to do is make sure Mom does not have to figure out how she is going to get there, and back home again, and where she is going to stay. I'm sure you have a relative or friend who could pick her up and get her to the wedding on time.......... Eliminate all likely concerns of hers and you should be free to do as you and Bullet choose.

Will Bullet have a new tag by the wedding?????

It's YOUR day so do what you want. If you want to have the wedding naked on camel back that is your rights.:wah:

Peg wrote: It's YOUR day so do what you want. If you want to have the wedding naked on camel back that is your rights.:wah:




That is sassy !:-6

Do what you want BR, it's "your" special day! (Bullet will go with whatever you choose) So go for it!!! It sounds like it may be better for all involved anyway, as many people "vacation" at LG, cause it's so beautiful there. So your guests will be getting a two-fer, wedding, & vacation spot all rolled into one! Best wishes & Best of luck in whatever you choose to do!

jennyswan wrote: Do what pleases you BR. It's your day and not your mothers. Tell her all she has to do is turn up and be supportive. Nothing to panic about. It sounds gorgeous


My sentiments exactly...

StupidCowboyTricks wrote: It did, after the "gun gone missing" and all. Hard story to follow.:rolleyes:
Are you stirring again?



Weeder, Bullet and I eloped on December 1st, but we are still having a "wedding" for the family and the brothers. As far as they know, it's the real deal.



Thanks for all the input guys. I do believe we are going to go with the new venue. 90% there now.

BabyRider wrote: Are you stirring again?



Weeder, Bullet and I eloped on December 1st, but we are still having a "wedding" for the family and the brothers. As far as they know, it's the real deal.



Thanks for all the input guys. I do believe we are going to go with the new venue. 90% there now.


No, Isn't that the story line?

StupidCowboyTricks wrote: No, Isn't that the story line?
It's MY story to tell, not yours. That part of the story does not belong in this thread. Why did you bring it up?

SnoozeControl wrote: I vote for what's the cheapest. Use the money for your trip to Florida.
I like how much we'll save, too. Makes a big difference. The $1,200 it would have cost us all around for the first clubhouse can go towards the honeymoon. Good thinkin' Snooze!

BabyRider wrote: It's MY story to tell, not yours. That part of the story does not belong in this thread. Why did you bring it up?


That's the story you told....I reiterated it to Weeder.

StupidCowboyTricks wrote: That's the story you told....I reiterated it to Weeder.
If weeder wants details about MY story, she can ask me. You? Butt out. Why am I always repeating myself to you???

BabyRider wrote: If weeder wants details about MY story, she can ask me. You? Butt out. Why am I always repeating myself to you???


Hey, this is a message board, What/who gives you carte Blanche? Better yet why?

StupidCowboyTricks wrote: Hey, this is a message board, What/who gives you carte Blanche? Better yet why?
Because, as I said, twice now, it's MY story to tell, NOT YOURS. What part of that is difficult to understand? You don't even know the whole story, and what's more, I wouldn't want the spin YOU would put on it anyway. Why can't you just stick your nose elsewhere? Why is it always me?

BabyRider wrote: Because, as I said, twice now, it's MY story to tell, NOT YOURS. What part of that is difficult to understand? You don't even know the whole story, and what's more, I wouldn't want the spin YOU would put on it anyway. Why can't you just stick your nose elsewhere? Why is it always me?


Stop stalking me.

StupidCowboyTricks wrote: Stop stalking me.
AND SHE'S OFF AGAIN!!!

'Scuse me, Stupid, but you're the one who came into this thread with ulterior motives, very subtly trying to stir the pot, yet again. You're friggin' nuts, you know that?

BabyRider wrote:



Bullet and I eloped on December 1st, but we are still having a "wedding" for the family and the brothers. As far as they know, it's the real deal.



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I was looking for your Ask BabyRider thread and didn't find but the closed one --- so here goes my question:

How have you been able to keep the marriage a secret from family and the brothers? I can't imagine keeping even an engagement secret. No one knows? Not even your sister???

SOJOURNER wrote: I was looking for your Ask BabyRider thread and didn't find but the closed one --- so here goes my question:



How have you been able to keep the marriage a secret from family and the brothers? I can't imagine keeping even an engagement secret. No one knows? Not even your sister???
Being in the new club, it's simple to keep the secret. But yes, my sister does know, and is sworn to secrecy. Actually it hasn't really been all that difficult. No one has come out and asked, "Are you guys really married already?" and when we talk about the plans and say "the wedding" people assume it will be the real thing. My son knows too, I don't keep anything from him. But, he'll keep his mouth shut, too.

I find it absolutely amazing that you've been able to keep this secret. Kudo's to you both!!!!!! :-6

BabyRider wrote: Because, as I said, twice now, it's MY story to tell, NOT YOURS. What part of that is difficult to understand? You don't even know the whole story, and what's more, I wouldn't want the spin YOU would put on it anyway. Why can't you just stick your nose elsewhere? Why is it always me?


I didn't put no spin on it......:p

StupidCowboyTricks wrote: I didn't put no spin on it......:p
Can't you read? I said "would" put on it. Geezus, I even have to explain my explanations to you. And by "didn't put no" do you mean you actually did? That is a double negative, you know.

Why can't you just get the hell away from me, as I have asked you many, many times in the past? If anyone is stalking anyone it would be you, you freakin' psycho.

BabyRider wrote: Can't you read? I said "would" put on it. Geezus, I even have to explain my explanations to you. And by "didn't put no" do you mean you actually did? That is a double negative, you know.

Why can't you just get the hell away from me, as I have asked you many, many times in the past? If anyone is stalking anyone it would be you, you freakin' psycho.


Pull the thread up and let's see.

mrsK wrote: I have to agree with the advice here BR.

Go for what you both want & I am sure your Mum will be ok about it all,she will be happy that you are getting married.



I hope it is the day you have always dreamed it would be:-6 :-6


Me too Mrs.K:)

BabyRider wrote: Are you stirring again?



Weeder, Bullet and I eloped on December 1st, but we are still having a "wedding" for the family and the brothers. As far as they know, it's the real deal.



Thanks for all the input guys. I do believe we are going to go with the new venue. 90% there now.
Oh Oh Oh Thats very nice. My computer was in a box on December 1st. Do whatever you want to do. The wedding will be nice.

StupidCowboyTricks wrote: Pull the thread up and let's see.
That's threads, plural, Stupid. Everyone knows I have asked you repeatedly to stay the hell away from me and you won't. Then you accuse me of stalking you?? What a fu*king joke.

There have been so many times, in so many threads I couldn't find them all if I was inclined to, which I'm not.

JUST STAY THE HELL AWAY FROM ME!!!!

BabyRider wrote: That's threads, plural, Stupid. Everyone knows I have asked you repeatedly to stay the hell away from me and you won't. Then you accuse me of stalking you?? What a fu*king joke.

There have been so many times, in so many threads I couldn't find them all if I was inclined to, which I'm not.

JUST STAY THE HELL AWAY FROM ME!!!!


I will thank you to take back your allegation then.

BabyRider wrote: AND SHE'S OFF AGAIN!!!

'Scuse me, Stupid, but you're the one who came into this thread with ulterior motives, very subtly trying to stir the pot, yet again. You're friggin' nuts, you know that?




No. Me. Gonad...Im nuts ! :rolleyes:

SnoozeControl wrote: The sexual tension in this thread is nearly overwhelming.:rolleyes:



Seriously... you two don't like each other? Don't reply. You two just inflame each other.



Right, stick a fork in me, I'm done.




Do as I say not as I do ? :wah:

SnoozeControl wrote: I'm not sure what you mean. I avoid Jives at all costs.




okee dokee

SnoozeControl wrote: I'm not sure what you mean. I avoid Jives at all costs.


Jives doesn't stalk you.:sneaky:

SnoozeControl wrote: This entire forum stalks me, I've seen your nose prints on my window. Don't deny it, I'm not crazy.




Neither is :-3 -that stupid song is playing in my head now

StupidCowboyTricks wrote: I will thank you to take back your allegation then.
You'll be turning blue then, waiting for that to happen. I'm not "taking back" a damn thing, (what are you, in 4th grade???) because every single thing I've posted is true. Including the part about you being a psycho nut.



SnoozeControl wrote:

The sexual tension in this thread is nearly overwhelming.:rolleyes:
What, may I ask, does this mean, exactly???

SnoozeControl wrote: Seriously... you two don't like each other? Don't reply. You two just inflame each other.


As I have said, I can't say HOW many times in the past, over and over, I do not start crap with this bozo, she comes after me. I will not sit idly by and let her get her digs in, I will call her out every single time. She's the one following me around, starting sh!t. I don't need you or anyone else telling me how to react to dealing with crap like this, thanks anyway.

SnoozeControl wrote: Right, stick a fork in me, I'm done.
I certainly hope so.

StupidCowboyTricks wrote: Jives doesn't stalk you.:sneaky:
You're in MY thread you idiot!!

You're delusional. Have you seeked professional help? You're text book for some paranoia therapy.

Once again....LEAVE ME ALONE!!!

Can I be much clearer than that, or do you need further explanation?

BabyRider wrote: You're in MY thread you idiot!!

You're delusional. Have you seeked professional help? You're text book for some paranoia therapy.

Once again....LEAVE ME ALONE!!!

Can I be much clearer than that, or do you need further explanation?


Right... I want to report this web site.

SnoozeControl wrote: This entire forum stalks me, I've seen your nose prints on my window. Don't deny it, I'm not crazy.


Your just so stalkable ! :-4