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Wasn't there something written about 'Patients' Charter' ???

Yes, and I think you will find reference to it in the local library, under 'Fiction' :mad::mad: :-5 :-5 :-5 :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes:

G#Gill;1088942 wrote: I just daren't put down my real thoughts here.

All I can say is keep strong Chris, and you Carol. I am sending as much good vibes to you both as I can........ Ere, it is bound to be alright today because it's me 21st birthday innit - a special day, where good strong happy waves are splashin all over the issue.............. I ordered it to be so ! Tons of love sent your way :-4 :-4 :-4Appreciate that thanks Gill....as for yer 21st.........4th time over would be about right lolxx

CARLA;1088945 wrote: Is there an up date??? has the surgery been completed?? 13 is a lucky number not to worry.

18 month wait for a surgery repair in the State that's called Medical Malpractice. Why would they make him wait that long and suffering all the time? :-5:-5Well he didn't answer my last text trying to cheer him up saying its a lucky number also so he may be in Surgery now.

The 18 months came about basically because of the treatment he got from the doctors....it wasn't the right treatment and had to insist after months of wasted treatment to be sent to the hospital.All this takes times here and in the meantime he went through so much discomfort.I just am grateful Carla that he wasnt sent home today as so many are over here because that empty bed is never found.Im so annoyed though that when we rung asking if he could come a little later than 7.30am they said no and the hassle it was sorting out how he would get there and he got there and just sat and waited.....hungry and thirsty for 5 hours.

G#Gill;1088947 wrote: Wasn't there something written about 'Patients' Charter' ???

Yes, and I think you will find reference to it in the local library, under 'Fiction' :mad::mad: :-5 :-5 :-5 :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes:To true Gill.....not easy being ill is it.

CARLA;1088945 wrote: Is there an up date??? has the surgery been completed?? 13 is a lucky number not to worry.

18 month wait for a surgery repair in the State that's called Medical Malpractice. Why would they make him wait that long and suffering all the time? :-5:-5


Carla, it should be called that here as well - it is disgusting and cruel. But it is called the National Health Service - funded from our government with money they receive each week from the working public, so that anybody who needs medical treatment do not have to pay, because they have already been paying for it ! I believe that if NH weekly contributions by the public, were put into a fund specifically for the use of NHS instead of being added to the general coffers, the UK would have the finest medical facilities in the world. This is also true of the police funding. If fines etc. were paid directly into a specific police fund, then the UK would have the most sophisticated, state-of-the-art technology, vehicles and man-power in the world.

But they don't, so the NHS is knackered, and the police force is fighting a loosing battle. But then, that is what is happening in the UK - everything is taking a dive!

G#Gill;1088963 wrote: Carla, it should be called that here as well - it is disgusting and cruel. But it is called the National Health Service - funded from our government with money they receive each week from the working public, so that anybody who needs medical treatment do not have to pay, because they have already been paying for it ! I believe that if NH weekly contributions by the public, were put into a fund specifically for the use of NHS instead of being added to the general coffers, the UK would have the finest medical facilities in the world. This is also true of the police funding. If fines etc. were paid directly into a specific police fund, then the UK would have the most sophisticated, state-of-the-art technology, vehicles and man-power in the world.

But they don't, so the NHS is knackered, and the police force is fighting a loosing battle. But then, that is what is happening in the UK - everything is taking a dive!Gotta agree Im afraid and again I refer back to my MIL on a previous post.The system she had been payng into for half a century let her down and it cost her her life.

Carolly;1088948 wrote: Appreciate that thanks Gill....as for yer 21st.........4th time over would be about right lolxx


That would make me 84 !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Fer gawds sake don't wish me life away Mrs. There's a long way to go before I reach 84 ffs !!!! :-5:-5:-5 :-1

G#Gill;1088966 wrote: That would make me 84 !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Fer gawds sake don't wish me life away Mrs. There's a long way to go before I reach 84 ffs !!!! :-5:-5:-5 :-1
Whats a couple of years between friends;):rolleyes::D

Carolly;1088968 wrote: Whats a couple of years between friends;):rolleyes::D


GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR :p:p:p

now, Carrolly how are you doing?

Odie;1089039 wrote: now, Carrolly how are you doing?Im going to ring in about half hour Odie and will let you know whats going on;)

Carolly;1089045 wrote: Im going to ring in about half hour Odie and will let you know whats going on;)


you must be drained and exhausted, did you eat?

Odie;1089046 wrote: you must be drained and exhausted, did you eat?Had a bite this morning but will eat later.....I know he will be ok of course I do but we still worry dont we Odie over those we care so much about.

Carolly;1089048 wrote: Had a bite this morning but will eat later.....I know he will be ok of course I do but we still worry dont we Odie over those we care so much about.


we do hun, its normal, but you also need your strength, so try and eat something, even some toast.

Carol, listen to yer Auntie Odie and do as yer told Mrs. It's no good you gettin poorly when you will want to look after your Chris grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

Get some bloody food down yer woman !!!!!!! :mad:

G#Gill;1089054 wrote: Carol, listen to yer Auntie Odie and do as yer told Mrs. It's no good you gettin poorly when you will want to look after your Chris grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

Get some bloody food down yer woman !!!!!!! :mad:


HI HUN!

Auntie Odie wishes she was there to make her something to eat!:-5:-5

Just checking in as I will all night until we have an update on Chris. Carolly, you know you have to eat and need your strenght. Gawd, I have to worry about you too? :-5

Any news yet Carol Babe?:-4

Guys thankyou for your concern.Right now Im feeling really down and need that love you are showing.Anyway I have spoken to Chris and his very very sore and feeling rough but his safe and ok Thank God. He sounded so down also and I had to be the happy one and it wasn't easy I can tell you......hopefully he will feel better after a good sleep.Some of you dont know what the operation was about so I will tell you.

18 months ago he had an Hernia op........but it went wrong and for 18 months the wound has been leaking all the time and his clothes and bed was always full of blood.Lets hope all will be well now.Again thankyou so much for being there for me today and Chez thanks for the text babexxx;):-4

Trunk Monkey;1089110 wrote: Just checking in as I will all night until we have an update on Chris. Carolly, you know you have to eat and need your strenght. Gawd, I have to worry about you too? :-5
;)xxx

Odie;1089053 wrote: we do hun, its normal, but you also need your strength, so try and eat something, even some toast.Ive eaten babe;)

Carolly;1089158 wrote: Guys thankyou for your concern.Right now Im feeling really down and need that love you are showing.Anyway I have spoken to Chris and his very very sore and feeling rough but his safe and ok Thank God. He sounded so down also and I had to be the happy one and it wasn't easy I can tell you......hopefully he will feel better after a good sleep.Some of you dont know what the operation was about so I will tell you.

18 months ago he had an Hernia op........but it went wrong and for 18 months the wound has been leaking all the time and his clothes and bed was always full of blood.Lets hope all will be well now.Again thankyou so much for being there for me today and Chez thanks for the text babexxx;):-4


Here are some :yh_hugs:yh_hugs:yh_hugs just for you hun. :-4

Carolly;1089158 wrote: Guys thankyou for your concern.Right now Im feeling really down and need that love you are showing.Anyway I have spoken to Chris and his very very sore and feeling rough but his safe and ok Thank God. He sounded so down also and I had to be the happy one and it wasn't easy I can tell you......hopefully he will feel better after a good sleep.Some of you dont know what the operation was about so I will tell you.

18 months ago he had an Hernia op........but it went wrong and for 18 months the wound has been leaking all the time and his clothes and bed was always full of blood.Lets hope all will be well now.Again thankyou so much for being there for me today and Chez thanks for the text babexxx;):-4


Thank God and I knew he would be okay Carolly. You both will feel better after a good night sleep. He sounds down because he misses you and he is scared that this time they didn't get it right either. I know in my heart that they did all it's all uphill from here Carolly. You have to be the happy one after hearing this wonderful news. There is nothing but love here for you and Chris and love heals everything. God didn't put you two together for no reason. He put you together for a lifetime Carolly. I'm so happy I would even try jellied eels right now :wah:

Love to you and Chris :-4

TM and Shell :-4:-4Oh I know theres so many people out there with much worse problems and I should be thankful its nothing life threatening and to right I am but he has so much on his mind also at the mo and I worry about him feeling so down also.Im not going into detail here but to say his been through alot lately would not be untrue.We all come here to get away from our RL problems dont we.....sometimes we manage that when good friends like you guys are about and other times we wonder why the hell we put ourselves through the grief we may encounter online.I am very lucky to have certain people here I know I can turn to and have indeed turned into RL Friends even though we may never meet...if that makes any sense at all.

Anyway thanks again my lovely mates and know when Chris sees this thread it will bring tears to his eyes as it has mine with the love that is shining through.:-4

Carolly;1089175 wrote: TM and Shell :-4:-4Oh I know theres so many people out there with much worse problems and I should be thankful its nothing life threatening and to right I am but he has so much on his mind also at the mo and I worry about him feeling so down also.Im not going into detail here but to say his been through alot lately would not be untrue.We all come here to get away from our RL problems dont we.....sometimes we manage that when good friends like you guys are about and other times we wonder why the hell we put ourselves through the grief we may encounter online.I am very lucky to have certain people here I know I can turn to and have indeed turned into RL Friends even though we may never meet...if that makes any sense at all.

Anyway thanks again my lovely mates and know when Chris sees this thread it will bring tears to his eyes as it has mine with the love that is shining through.:-4


Carolly, how is Chris doing today? Have been thinking of him & you all day.

Carolly;1089175 wrote: TM and Shell :-4:-4Oh I know theres so many people out there with much worse problems and I should be thankful its nothing life threatening and to right I am but he has so much on his mind also at the mo and I worry about him feeling so down also.Im not going into detail here but to say his been through alot lately would not be untrue.We all come here to get away from our RL problems dont we.....sometimes we manage that when good friends like you guys are about and other times we wonder why the hell we put ourselves through the grief we may encounter online.I am very lucky to have certain people here I know I can turn to and have indeed turned into RL Friends even though we may never meet...if that makes any sense at all.

Anyway thanks again my lovely mates and know when Chris sees this thread it will bring tears to his eyes as it has mine with the love that is shining through.:-4


Hun, everyone has they're own major problems. We all experience nervousnes, scared, worry and all those other feelings. Some problems may seem to be worse than our own, but that doesn't make your feelings and problems less than others...just different circumstances. I send my :-4 to both of you.

Glad all is ok Carolly, Chris will be back by your side before you know it. :-6

Thanks Betty and Shell;):-4

Ducky if you read back a few posts you will see whats been going on and thanks babe for your thoughts;)

Carolly;1089160 wrote: Ive eaten babe;)Now im thinking better I am looking at this post of mine and thinking.........it looks like ive eaten the Pig Babe:yh_rotfl

Carolly;1089273 wrote: Now im thinking better I am looking at this post of mine and thinking.........it looks like ive eaten the Pig Babe:yh_rotfl


lmao:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl

Chezzie;1089274 wrote: lmao:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl:yh_rotflCant stop laughing now as I keep looking at that post......oh I needed a laugh and your joke and me reading that post has sure done that;):D

Carolly;1089277 wrote: Cant stop laughing now as I keep looking at that post......oh I needed a laugh and your joke and me reading that post has sure done that;):D


heh heh that must of been some Bacon sarnie:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl

Carolly;1089158 wrote: Guys thankyou for your concern.Right now Im feeling really down and need that love you are showing.Anyway I have spoken to Chris and his very very sore and feeling rough but his safe and ok Thank God. He sounded so down also and I had to be the happy one and it wasn't easy I can tell you......hopefully he will feel better after a good sleep.Some of you dont know what the operation was about so I will tell you.

18 months ago he had an Hernia op........but it went wrong and for 18 months the wound has been leaking all the time and his clothes and bed was always full of blood.Lets hope all will be well now.Again thankyou so much for being there for me today and Chez thanks for the text babexxx;):-4


soooooooooo glad it went well!

you both will feel down, its all the stress that was built up, now your exhausted and have come down from those highs.........horrid feelings they are.



get tons of sleep hun!

xo

Odie;1089294 wrote: soooooooooo glad it went well!

you both will feel down, its all the stress that was built up, now your exhausted and have come down from those highs.........horrid feelings they are.



get tons of sleep hun!

xoHe just rung me and I told him how lovely you all have been here....and you all really have:-4 anyway he told me to say Hello to you all and Thankyou all for your kind wishes :-4

Carolly;1089298 wrote: He just rung me and I told him how lovely you all have been here....and you all really have:-4 anyway he told me to say Hello to you all and Thankyou all for your kind wishes :-4


AREN'T YOU IN BED YET?:-5:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl

Odie;1089299 wrote: AREN'T YOU IN BED YET?:-5:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfliTS NOT 11PM YET!!!!:wah:Actually im all in but doubt I will sleep as me brains here there and everywhere.....and yes I do have one lol.

Carolly;1089158 wrote: Guys thankyou for your concern.Right now Im feeling really down and need that love you are showing.Anyway I have spoken to Chris and his very very sore and feeling rough but his safe and ok Thank God. He sounded so down also and I had to be the happy one and it wasn't easy I can tell you......hopefully he will feel better after a good sleep.Some of you dont know what the operation was about so I will tell you.



18 months ago he had an Hernia op........but it went wrong and for 18 months the wound has been leaking all the time and his clothes and bed was always full of blood.Lets hope all will be well now.Again thankyou so much for being there for me today and Chez thanks for the text babexxx;):-4


OMG Carol....Poor Chris...I can't believe that he's suffered for 18months....that's awful....



I'm hope the operation worked and he feels better.



Lubs ya all lots...

Kathy

Carolly;1089303 wrote: iTS NOT 11PM YET!!!!:wah:Actually im all in but doubt I will sleep as me brains here there and everywhere.....and yes I do have one lol.


good grief, you have to wait until 11?:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl

did you eat?

did you tuck yourself in?

brain cells? what are those eh?:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl

Kathy Ellen;1089307 wrote: OMG Carol....Poor Chris...I can't believe that he's suffered for 18months....that's awful....



I'm hope the operation worked and he feels better.



Lubs ya all lots...

KathyWell he said he was bleeding and they had to do somthing and he is feeling not to good but his just had an op fgs.....he really needs to just recover.Fanks Kath;):-4

Odie;1089309 wrote: good grief, you have to wait until 11?:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl

did you eat?

did you tuck yourself in?

brain cells? what are those eh?:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl

My love to you and chris. :-4

Carolly you and Chris are in my thoughts a prayers. I hope they got it right this time its not that difficult of a surgery. He needs to rest and heal properly and hopefully be home soon. :-4 :-4 What is the amount of time they are saying he needs to be in the Hospital??

I'm angered that he had to wait 18 months for the repair that is awful by any standards. I would raise hell once he is home and get to the bottom of why this is happened. No excuse for someone to have to suffer that long for any reason. But then again we have a totally different Medical delivery system in the US so I should just keep my big mouth shut.

Thanks Abbs and Carla for your well wishes.:-4

I have been in touch and I think they need the bed:rolleyes: and a doctor is seeing him this morning and he come out.Gawd ...things have changed.

Carla its hard work being ill in this country but thankfully you do hear more positive stories than this one at times which we must never forget.Trouble is so many bad stories also and lifes even lost at times as I pointed out earlier in this thread.......sign of the times here Carla Im afraid.

Just stopping by to see how Chris is doing today. I hope he's not in much pain. They discharge early here as well Carolly since beds are scarce. Most patients recover quicker when they are in their own home. I know after I had my operation, I couldn't wait to get into my own bed. I will check back later to see how things are going.

Carolly;1089298 wrote: He just rung me and I told him how lovely you all have been here....and you all really have:-4 anyway he told me to say Hello to you all and Thankyou all for your kind wishes :-4


Well, I hope he is feeling better now Carolly and tell him Merry Christmas from Ducky.

Trunk Monkey;1089512 wrote: Just stopping by to see how Chris is doing today. I hope he's not in much pain. They discharge early here as well Carolly since beds are scarce. Most patients recover quicker when they are in their own home. I know after I had my operation, I couldn't wait to get into my own bed. I will check back later to see how things are going.He got thrown.......sorry he was dismissed today;)His not feeling to bad and has all sorts in things put in him.Tar for your support:-4

qsducks;1089542 wrote: Well, I hope he is feeling better now Carolly and tell him Merry Christmas from Ducky.I sure will girl and much appreciated.....we all like love around us at certain times dont we:-4

Carolly;1089562 wrote: I sure will girl and much appreciated.....we all like love around us at certain times dont we:-4


Yes we do! Especially this time of year or when something yukky is going on in our lives and you have lots of friends here at the FG Carolly and we all give love when it is truly needed.:-4

wow, he got kicked out that soon?

glad he is alight!

Odie;1089575 wrote: wow, he got kicked out that soon?

glad he is alight!


They throw you out fast. They did it to me when I gave birth to my 2nd daughter. Yup, out on the street the day after.