importance of looks

pinkchick · Post by **pinkchick** » Fri Jun 22, 2007 12:49 pm

Soberano;643580 wrote: A Lada and a kettle do.

:wah: :wah:

Carl44 · Post by **Carl44** » Fri Jun 22, 2007 12:54 pm

Pinky;643578 wrote: For you, anything!:D

So do I get a lotus Elise and a steam room too? (Just kidding!):wah:

you taking up hairdressing, pink rinse

Carl44 · Post by **Carl44** » Fri Jun 22, 2007 12:57 pm

Soberano;643595 wrote: Now what would you want with a hairdresser.:wah:

waynker :wah: :wah:

a full head wax buddy :wah:

observer1 · Post by **observer1** » Fri Jun 22, 2007 1:06 pm

I still have my cosmetology license. I just don't practice it.

RedGlitter · Post by **RedGlitter** » Fri Jun 22, 2007 3:08 pm

observer1;643609 wrote: I still have my cosmetology license. I just don't practice it.

I let my license go. I do miss the work sometimes. People are always offering me salon jobs and I can't take any without the license. :-5

Tater Tazz · Post by **Tater Tazz** » Fri Jun 22, 2007 4:11 pm

Well, I must say lately I do care how I look when I go out. My hair has to be perfect and my outfits just right. I do turn heads and I do have smarts. I think it is up to the individual if it is important how you look. I feel I have lost 80lbs now and I would like to show it off like some of the other people around here. It kind of makes me feel happy when guys look at me.

observer1 · Post by **observer1** » Wed Jun 27, 2007 1:26 pm

Tater Tazz;643731 wrote: Well, I must say lately I do care how I look when I go out. My hair has to be perfect and my outfits just right. I do turn heads and I do have smarts. I think it is up to the individual if it is important how you look. I feel I have lost 80lbs now and I would like to show it off like some of the other people around here. It kind of makes me feel happy when guys look at me.

And there's nothing wrong with that! Does alot for the ego! :-6

Carl44 · Post by **Carl44** » Wed Jun 27, 2007 1:54 pm

Tater Tazz;643731 wrote: Well, I must say lately I do care how I look when I go out. My hair has to be perfect and my outfits just right. I do turn heads and I do have smarts. I think it is up to the individual if it is important how you look. I feel I have lost 80lbs now and I would like to show it off like some of the other people around here. It kind of makes me feel happy when guys look at me.

it kinda makes me feel unhappy when guys look at me

along-for-the-ride · Post by **along-for-the-ride** » Wed Jun 27, 2007 1:54 pm

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

Different strokes for different folks.

One persons junk is another persons treasure.

'Nuff said.

observer1 · Post by **observer1** » Wed Jun 27, 2007 1:58 pm

Yes, but if you feel good about yourself, it radiates to others & draws them to you. Self-pride is important.

SuzyB · Post by **SuzyB** » Wed Jun 27, 2007 1:59 pm

along-for-the-ride;647151 wrote: Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

Different strokes for different folks.

One persons junk is another persons treasure.

'Nuff said.

Great post :yh_worshp :yh_worshp

minks · Post by **minks** » Wed Jun 27, 2007 2:01 pm

but you have to admit..... in a room full of people I think we notice the pretty ones first... after that we start to process before we approach.

SuzyB · Post by **SuzyB** » Wed Jun 27, 2007 3:08 pm

minks;647160 wrote: but you have to admit..... in a room full of people I think we notice the pretty ones first... after that we start to process before we approach.

I normally notice the loudest first

:rolleyes: Did I tell you all how I met Jim :-3

Carl44 · Post by **Carl44** » Wed Jun 27, 2007 3:09 pm

how shallow is that its not like us guys just go for blond hair big boobs and long legs is it :rolleyes:

its personality personaltity personalitity

minks · Post by **minks** » Wed Jun 27, 2007 3:10 pm

jimbo;647284 wrote: how shallow is that its not like us guys just go for blond hair big boobs and long legs is it :rolleyes:

its personality personaltity personalitity

convince us Jimbo!!

pinkchick · Post by **pinkchick** » Wed Jun 27, 2007 3:16 pm

SuzyB;647281 wrote: I normally notice the loudest first

:rolleyes: Did I tell you all how I met Jim :-3

But Jimbo is such a quiet, unassuming wee soul

minks · Post by **minks** » Wed Jun 27, 2007 3:19 pm

pinkchick;647305 wrote: But Jimbo is such a quiet, unassuming wee soul ... when in a coma

sorry Jimbo I could not resist that

SuzyB · Post by **SuzyB** » Wed Jun 27, 2007 3:19 pm

pinkchick;647305 wrote: But Jimbo is such a quiet, unassuming wee soul

Yeh right, like you lot believe that :rolleyes:

Carl44 · Post by **Carl44** » Wed Jun 27, 2007 3:20 pm

minks;647288 wrote: convince us Jimbo!!

i gues you missed my miss spelling on the last two personalitys

pinkchick;647305 wrote: But Jimbo is such a quiet, unassuming wee soul

in real life i'm worse honest

pinkchick · Post by **pinkchick** » Wed Jun 27, 2007 3:27 pm

jimbo;647314 wrote: i gues you missed my miss spelling on the last two personalitys

in real life i'm worse honest

Poor Suzy..... How does she put up with ya?? Ya big eejit:wah:

Musiclover89 · Post by **Musiclover89** » Wed Jun 27, 2007 3:28 pm

I aint the best lookin guy in the World and i hate it when people judge me because of my Looks it really pisses me of how can people get so low like that i'll never know

Carl44 · Post by **Carl44** » Wed Jun 27, 2007 3:28 pm

minks;647311 wrote: sorry Jimbo I could not resist that

:p :p

SuzyB · Post by **SuzyB** » Wed Jun 27, 2007 3:29 pm

pinkchick;647326 wrote:

Poor Suzy..... How does she put up with ya?? Ya big eejit:wah:

With a great set of ear plugs

SuzyB · Post by **SuzyB** » Wed Jun 27, 2007 3:31 pm

Musiclover89;647328 wrote: I aint the best lookin guy in the World and i hate it when people judge me because of my Looks it really pisses me of how can people get so low like that i'll never know

It's human nature Darren, but what makes something last is a lot more than looks, it's personality, friendship, laughter. You are a great guy and I have no doubt that when you're ready you will meet a cracking lady. :-6

Musiclover89 · Post by **Musiclover89** » Wed Jun 27, 2007 3:35 pm

SuzyB;647334 wrote: It's human nature Darren, but what makes something last is a lot more than looks, it's personality, friendship, laughter. You are a great guy and I have no doubt that when you're ready you will meet a cracking lady. :-6

What a lovely post thanks Suzy

Nomad · Post by **Nomad** » Wed Jun 27, 2007 3:37 pm

I dont know.

As long as the eyes sparkle Im good.

On her I mean.

SuzyB · Post by **SuzyB** » Wed Jun 27, 2007 3:40 pm

I just asked Jim what my best feature is, his reply "ME" :-5 :-5

Musiclover89 · Post by **Musiclover89** » Wed Jun 27, 2007 3:41 pm

SuzyB;647352 wrote: I just asked Jim what my best feature is, his reply "ME" :-5 :-5

LMAO

Carl44 · Post by **Carl44** » Wed Jun 27, 2007 3:42 pm

Musiclover89;647328 wrote: I aint the best lookin guy in the World and i hate it when people judge me because of my Looks it really pisses me of how can people get so low like that i'll never know

do you know what buddy stand tall and look the world right in the eye ,i never ever get down about my looks ,i must admit if we are out and some really good looking young guy tries chatting up suzy there have been times i have wished i was better looking ,but if i had been a good looking guy maybe i would not be the fun loving caring sole that i am , at the end of the day you are what you are and we have to make the best of it ,i'd much rather be with someone kind and good than pretty and nasty ,lucky with suzy i got both

SuzyB · Post by **SuzyB** » Wed Jun 27, 2007 3:42 pm

Musiclover89;647355 wrote: LMAO

Don't you'll only encourage him :rolleyes:

Nomad · Post by **Nomad** » Wed Jun 27, 2007 3:44 pm

Soberano;643185 wrote: Hello right back at you.:wah:

You were talking to me, right;)

Thtep athide. Get your own Jimbo !

weeder · Post by **weeder** » Wed Jun 27, 2007 5:06 pm

I feel really bad because my look isnt in anymore. When I was younger, people said I looked like Natalie Wood. In my 40's they said Susan Sarandon. Now, I guess i dont look like anybody, so noone looks at me at all. I know for certain that looks are a very personal thing. My friends would always tell me how awful looking they thought a man who I thought was great looking, after we broke up. And I know that someone physicall great looking can become horrible looking, if you discover you dont like who they are.

neffy · Post by **neffy** » Wed Jun 27, 2007 11:40 pm

i dont think looks are important,my hubby is very into body buliding and everything that goes with it.He once said to me that i was not good looking and that no one would look at me twice,i think that was said to make him feel good,because i think he is insecure about himself.

I like a person for what they not on how they look.

CrazyCruizChick · Post by **CrazyCruizChick** » Thu Jun 28, 2007 2:27 am

I think Looks are important but not nessaraly your face or body shape but to take care in the way you dress I always like some one who dresses well and I always look at the shoes first being in clothes that suite you well will always make you feel better.

Post by **Betty Boop** » Thu Jun 28, 2007 2:30 am

weeder;647405 wrote: I feel really bad because my look isnt in anymore. When I was younger, people said I looked like Natalie Wood. In my 40's they said Susan Sarandon. Now, I guess i dont look like anybody, so noone looks at me at all. I know for certain that looks are a very personal thing. My friends would always tell me how awful looking they thought a man who I thought was great looking, after we broke up. And I know that someone physicall great looking can become horrible looking, if you discover you dont like who they are.

Pffftt!!!! My god woman you carry with yourself a grace and air that demands people look at you!! You just can't see it.

Post by **Betty Boop** » Thu Jun 28, 2007 2:37 am

neffy;647450 wrote: i dont think looks are important,my hubby is very into body buliding and everything that goes with it.He once said to me that i was not good looking and that no one would look at me twice,i think that was said to make him feel good,because i think he is insecure about himself.

I like a person for what they not on how they look.

Does sound like insecurity on his part Neffy, just remember though, you could be projecting your own insecurity onto him, he's just acting it out. :-4

Bez · Post by **Bez** » Thu Jun 28, 2007 2:40 am

I've always tried to 'look my best' but never been obsessed. As long as people are clean and relatively tidy then that's OK by me.

What is 'good looking' anyway ?

Look underneath it all and we're all basically the same.

Alot of media pressure put on youngsters a think to look like models and so called superstars.

Bez · Post by **Bez** » Thu Jun 28, 2007 2:45 am

weeder;647405 wrote: I feel really bad because my look isnt in anymore. When I was younger, people said I looked like Natalie Wood. In my 40's they said Susan Sarandon. Now, I guess i dont look like anybody, so noone looks at me at all. I know for certain that looks are a very personal thing. My friends would always tell me how awful looking they thought a man who I thought was great looking, after we broke up. And I know that someone physicall great looking can become horrible looking, if you discover you dont like who they are.

I've only ever looked quite ordinary, but my husband (ex) told me I looked better as I grew older. I 'think' I'm lucky because I'ved aged quite well (not too many wrinkles) but I do look in the mirror with a certain sadness sometimes .

neffy · Post by **neffy** » Thu Jun 28, 2007 2:50 am

Betty Boop;647536 wrote: Does sound like insecurity on his part Neffy, just remember though, you could be projecting your own insecurity onto him, he's just acting it out. :-4

to a certain degree boo you might me right,but he was also like that with his 1st wife

along-for-the-ride · Post by **along-for-the-ride** » Thu Jun 28, 2007 1:28 pm

Nomad;647343 wrote: I dont know.

As long as the eyes sparkle Im good.

On her I mean.

So, Nomad, you are an "eye" man.

weeder · Post by **weeder** » Thu Jun 28, 2007 1:35 pm

Betty Boop;647533 wrote: Pffftt!!!! My god woman you carry with yourself a grace and air that demands people look at you!! You just can't see it.

Thank you Betty, no I cant see it.

weeder · Post by **weeder** » Thu Jun 28, 2007 1:37 pm

Bez;647539 wrote: I've only ever looked quite ordinary, but my husband (ex) told me I looked better as I grew older. I 'think' I'm lucky because I'ved aged quite well (not too many wrinkles) but I do look in the mirror with a certain sadness sometimes .

You do not look your age Bez... You are attractive and you have quiet class.

Why, Id be proud to be seen with you. Aging is difficult for all of us. Looking in the mirror, and not finding who we used to see.

weeder · Post by **weeder** » Thu Jun 28, 2007 1:39 pm

I miss seeing both you girls...