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flopstock wrote: hemorrhoids ..enough said?
Thanks Floppy, that's just reminded me to add grapes to my shopping list

Morning Folks...it rained a little last night so the air smells fresh this morning....the sun is shining now and all seems right with the world.



Good friendships have staying power whatever is said or NOT said....so have a wonderful day my friends :-4 see you all later .

It's a dull day here today but, who knows, the clouds may clear later on.

It occurred to me when I got up this morning that each and every one of us here on FG has problems to deal with...some might appear worse than others but they're still difficult for the person involved. And I know, for my part, that I can get irritable with others when I feel I'm not dealing with my own problems very well.

I felt myself getting picky on this thread last night. I like Bez a lot, she's a lovely lady both on FG and in person. And that's what I should have said instead of what I posted to you, Val. I'm sorry.

theia wrote: It's a dull day here today but, who knows, the clouds may clear later on.



It occurred to me when I got up this morning that each and every one of us here on FG has problems to deal with...some might appear worse than others but they're still difficult for the person involved. And I know, for my part, that I can get irritable with others when I feel I'm not dealing with my own problems very well.



I felt myself getting picky on this thread last night. I like Bez a lot, she's a lovely lady both on FG and in person. And that's what I should have said instead of what I posted to you, Val. I'm sorry.


A big group hug is in order to start the weekend.....



:yh_hugs :yh_hugs :yh_hugs :yh_hugs



We are having the mother of all thunderstorms here....I keep ducking...the lightning is almost continuous....It's coming YOUR way Arnie...

Bez wrote: A big group hug is in order to start the weekend.....



:yh_hugs :yh_hugs :yh_hugs :yh_hugs




Is that group hug for everyone?

sorry snooze but i think its these type of threads that cause a lot of trouble

just my opinion

BabyRider wrote: Is that group hug for everyone?


Absolutely, and a huge one for Bullet when you see him.

I like waking up to happy mornings in the Garden!

Bez wrote: Absolutely, and a huge one for Bullet when you see him.
I'll be more than happy to pass that along to him, Bezzy, thanks!! :yh_bigsmi :yh_hugs

SnoozeControl wrote: That's exactly where I think you're wrong. You don't think we should discuss issues that bother us?


thats not what i said

if something bothers members, they could contact the person direct & attempt to sort it out before putting it onto the board as these type of threads have always resulted in bad feelings for someone concerned

buttercup wrote: thats not what i said

if something bothers members, they could contact the person direct & attempt to sort it out before putting it onto the board as these type of threads have always resulted in bad feelings for someone concerned


Can I get involved ?

How does one know whats going to upset one member or another ? There are so many different types of personalities here. You and sneezer are very different, thats ok. Spot and I are very different, thats ok. But this is an open forum with some guidelines but still very loosely framed. This is a place for an exchange of ideas and sometimes that will include flare ups. Its just the natural progression of things, its to be expected. Pm's are useful but often more than one person is involved in an issue and the boards are here to be used. Things have a way of working themselves out Scot girl.

i think thats fair enough comment nomad, flare ups are to be expected in a group this size, all im saying is - this type of thread is almost asking for one

its just my opinion & im just giving it, i dont look for people to agree with me :-6

buttercup wrote: i think thats fair enough comment nomad, flare ups are to be expected in a group this size, all im saying is - this type of thread is almost asking for one

its just my opinion & im just giving it, i dont look for people to agree with me :-6




Of course. Everyones opinions and thoughts and feelings are valid. Etiquette, respect and common decency are prefered naturally but its not a perfect world. My best advice would be to teach by example.

Love you

Nomad wrote:



Things have a way of working themselves out Scot girl.


Of course they do....another day, another dawn another happy day in the garden. :-6

buttercup wrote: sorry snooze but i think its these type of threads that cause a lot of trouble



just my opinion


And BC, this thread was moving in a pieceful, loving direction. If

you saw those previous few posts, it might have been better not to

bring it back around? Just my thoughts this morning.



Morning all. Glad it sounds like some of us are getting a little cooling

relief, I am here with the window open listening to the birds chirp.

It's barely light yet but I think they are getting it out of the way

before it gets hot!!



:)

SnoozeControl wrote: You don't whisper in corners in real life, do you?
I do. I'm your typical shy, *shrinking violet* kinda person. :yh_rotfl I almost got through that with a straight face.

See how we've come full circle on this one?

It seems that we all respect each other's opinions and the right to state it.

Even if this thread started out devisive (in some's opinions), it really ended up bringing everyone together.

Yes, a nice big group hug is in order :p

cherandbuster wrote: See how we've come full circle on this one?



It seems that we all respect each other's opinions and the right to state it.



Even if this thread started out devisive (in some's opinions), it really ended up bringing everyone together.



Yes, a nice big group hug is in order :p




This is crap ! I quit !

Nomie

You made me love you :-4

I didn't want to do it

I didn't want to do it

(GREAT SONG!)

SnoozeControl wrote: This is gonna sound argumentative, but I didn't start this thread to be "devisive"... I wanted to hear some opinions.

It bothers me that some people took it that way.


I agree that that was not your intent, Snooze. I happened to take it in the way you intended.

But that is the natural fallout when you've got all sorts of personalities interpreting it.

Nomad wrote: This is crap ! I quit !


You'll be missing a big hug from a lot of lovely gals Nomad.....still quitting ??

thank you for your comments/insight flopstock, you have the gift of hitting the nail right on the head :-6

Gasoline

Flame

fireworks!

sparklers

Id have to agree here fluffy. Im sorry if that makes you mad, but Foopy made quite a bit of sense from my perspective. Foopy doesnt often make sense so lets give credit where credit is due. :wah:

kitchen matches

flopstock wrote: Not that I understand most of what you just said, but I always value your opinion snooze..:p



my post was not intended as a criticism of you, but was intended merely to point out that what she expressed concerning this type of thread, came to fruition.



you are and will remain one of my favs here girl...so don't read what i put wrong, okay?:-4


That was a wonderful clarification. And so well put.

See how we can play nice?:p

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flopstock wrote: beans;)


:-2 :wah:

The thing that really annoys me in forums are those who personally attack people for the views that they hold. Lets all be friends!!:)

woppy71 wrote: The thing that really annoys me in forums are those who personally attack people for the views that they hold. Lets all be friends!!:)WHAT'S THAT SUPPOSED TO MEAN?!?







;)

Bowel Syndrome.

valerie wrote: Bowel Syndrome.


:D

Good morning, dear Val!

Accountable wrote: WHAT'S THAT SUPPOSED TO MEAN?!?







;)







:wah::wah:

I hate the sarcastic little comments that on the surface look completely innocent but really are just posted to $hit stir - and people who tell others they hate you while their sending you 19 friends invites now thats what i call stirring .