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Amie wrote: Not a lot mostly we're pretty "normal" it's just an open marriage.
Good For YOU!!!

Hi. I'm Wolvie. How YOU doin'?

Accountable wrote: Okey dokey! :-6



Everybody keeps talking about global warming creating all our super hurricanes. I have a theory that Americans are so much fatter than everybody else, we've knocked the earth's rotation all wobbly, which is churning the oceans. What do you think? :yh_glasse
that is freaking Brilliant!!:yh_worshp :yh_worshp

Far Rider wrote: hey bug off dude I saw her first....:wah:
i'm giving Supe's a call. he doesn't like it when people laugh at him.

Wolverine wrote: Good For YOU!!!

Hi. I'm Wolvie. How YOU doin'?




:wah: Hello Wolvie, you just happen to be my favourite action hero ever. How YOU doin? :yh_battin

Amie wrote: :wah: Hello Wolvie, you just happen to be my favourite action hero ever. How YOU doin? :yh_battin
i'm doing better now.

come over to the pub, i'll buy you a drink....

Far Rider wrote: sheeze I cant win tonight....:-2


aaaaaaaaaw :-4

Wolverine wrote: i'm doing better now.

come over to the pub, i'll buy you a drink....


That place confuses me no end. :wah:

Amie wrote: That place confuses me no end. :wah:
come along, come along.

allow me to introduce you to everyone and give you the grand tour.:sneaky:

Wolverine wrote: come along, come along.

allow me to introduce you to everyone and give you the grand tour.:sneaky:


:yh_nailbi I'm afraid.

Amie wrote: That place confuses me no end. :wah:
And you just got here. The best is yet to come.

Blackjack wrote: And you just got here. The best is yet to come.


:eek:

Amie wrote: That place confuses me no end. :wah:


Welcome to Nomads world ....:yh_eyerol





OK, sorry to harp on about your sex life but im intrigued how did you get into all this free love open marriage stuff ,have you practised it before you got married or were you shown the way.How many times have you tested your commitment to each other ?

pantsonfire321@aol.com wrote: Welcome to Nomads world ....:yh_eyerol





OK, sorry to harp on about your sex life but im intrigued how did you get into all this free love open marriage stuff ,have you practised it before you got married or were you shown the way.How many times have you tested your commitment to each other ?
No problem. I wouldn't call it free love, but whatever you want to call it is ok by me

I had not been in an open relationship before no. I was shown the way. I'd always been strongly against marriage, for the reasons I briefly spoke of earlier in the thread. Most little girls dream about their wedding day, I used to dream about travelling the world.

I met someone who was into open relationships, and he raised it with me very early into our dating life. I was a little sceptical, but thought hell, why not give it a shot. I'm by nature a very open and experimental person. I'm curious about just about everything, so it would have been hard work for me to not explore the idea or to resist peaking inside that world. So... I did.

The common misconception is that people in open marriages/relationships just go out and sleep around willy nilly. Now I'm sure some do, and good for them. For me and my hubby it's a little different to that. We have certain rules and certain things we do to make it work (eg. noone the other person knows, not in our home, and there's a couple more but I don't want to bore you all) ... where was I.... oh. ok. So yeah, we have rules. We don't go to orgies and we're not into free love and sleeping with someone new every other day. In my entire time in this relationship and now marriage, I've exercised the priviledge three times (in 6 years) and I'd be guessing at my husbands adventures. It's also a misconception that our sex life must be crap but... it isn't. :wah:

For me, those three times, one was a one nighter (and he was coincidentally my first time exercising the priviledge), the other two people, were significantly longer. None continue to this day, and the last ended about 6 months ago.

Does that help at all in explaining it?

Amie wrote: No problem. I wouldn't call it free love, but whatever you want to call it is ok by me

I had not been in an open relationship before no. I was shown the way. I'd always been strongly against marriage, for the reasons I briefly spoke of earlier in the thread. Most little girls dream about their wedding day, I used to dream about travelling the world.

I met someone who was into open relationships, and he raised it with me very early into our dating life. I was a little sceptical, but thought hell, why not give it a shot. I'm by nature a very open and experimental person. I'm curious about just about everything, so it would have been hard work for me to not explore the idea or to resist peaking inside that world. So... I did.

The common misconception is that people in open marriages/relationships just go out and sleep around willy nilly. Now I'm sure some do, and good for them. For me and my hubby it's a little different to that. We have certain rules and certain things we do to make it work (eg. noone the other person knows, not in our home, and there's a couple more but I don't want to bore you all) ... where was I.... oh. ok. So yeah, we have rules. We don't go to orgies and we're not into free love and sleeping with someone new every other day. In my entire time in this relationship and now marriage, I've exercised the priviledge three times (in 6 years) and I'd be guessing at my husbands adventures. It's also a misconception that our sex life must be crap but... it isn't. :wah:

For me, those three times, one was a one nighter (and he was coincidentally my first time exercising the priviledge), the other two people, were significantly longer. None continue to this day, and the last ended about 6 months ago.

Does that help at all in explaining it?


Amie,wow you sure are honest - do you mind us asking ? i dont find it boring at all your very honest and thats a rarity nowadays.

Oh, I'd also like to say, it's definitely not about testing our committment to each other and nope, I don't mind being asked. For one this is an ask me anything thread, for another, I opened the can of worms, I'd be a bit of an arse to slam it shut the minute curiosity was expressed. :wah: I'm pretty much an open book.

Amie wrote: Oh, I'd also like to say, it's definitely not about testing our committment to each other and nope, I don't mind being asked. For one this is an ask me anything thread, for another, I opened the can of worms, I'd be a bit of an arse to slam it shut the minute curiosity was expressed. :wah: I'm pretty much an open book.


Well I don't see anything wrong with it! Everyone does whatever works best in their relationship!:)

I wonder if my hubby would be open to the open thing?? LOL!!:D

PS Welcome to FG!!! (I have a BIL in Brisbane!)

Are you into swinging /swapping that sort of thing .

pantsonfire321@aol.com wrote: Are you into swinging /swapping that sort of thing .Wow, Pants. That's a pretty bold offer, sight unseen. :p

Accountable wrote: Wow, Pants. That's a pretty bold offer, sight unseen. :p




Cheeky twonk................im respecterbubble i am.

pantsonfire321@aol.com wrote: Are you into swinging /swapping that sort of thing .


nope.

SnoozeControl wrote: Hi Amie, I don't think I've actually welcomed you here yet. Nice to meet you and I'm enjoying your posts.


Hey there

Far Rider wrote: Amie's back! And her front too!

:wah:


But .... I never really left. You were just too busy flirting with all the other hussies! :sneaky: :wah:

Welcome Amie I have learned more reading this thread than I have in a good many years, your honesty is refreshing. :-6

Can you convert this into inches and pound, we don't do this metric thing here is the states..!! :wah:

[QUOTE]To be totally honest I have no idea what my measurements are. I'm 168cms tall and I weigh 49kgs if that helps?


I see you have met the boys Far, Acc, Nomadness, and Wolfie they will keep you entertained for hours. :rolleyes: There are a few more to be aware of Clancy and Uncle Kram come to mind, also dear sweet Clipper. I'm sure you will meet everyone in time.

I love Figi spent some time there myself while visiting friends in New Zealand beautiful part of the world..

WELCOME..!!

CARLA wrote: Welcome Amie I have learned more reading this thread than I have in a good many years, your honesty is refreshing.

Can you convert this into inches and pound, we don't do this metric thing here is the states..!!



I see you have met the boys Far, Acc, Nomadness, and Wolfie they will keep you entertained for hours. There are a few more to be aware of Clancy and Uncle Kram come to mind, also dear sweet Clipper. I'm sure you will meet everyone in time.

I love Figi spent some time there myself while visiting friends in New Zealand beautiful part of the world..

WELCOME..!!
Thanks for the welcome, and unfortunately nope I'm not good at the whole conversion thing you're on your own! Besides, it's about time you Yanks got with the rest of the world and went Metric. All the cool kids are doing it. :wah:

It was kinda fun. Most of you seem really nice. Best of luck! Enjoy your worlds, and remember... not every open marriage is about orgies and swinging. :wah: