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Odie;1151690 wrote: way past, but some people will never grow up.


Hubs says he single and gee, I wonder why?:wah:

qsducks;1151700 wrote: Hubs says he single and gee, I wonder why?:wah:


:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl

qsducks;1151686 wrote: I looked back into his texts from this pig and they are all gross depictions of women, or anti woman, etc. The dude is 35 yrs old...way past the time to grow up. Dirtball.


I would go so much farther than Dirtball but they would all be **** out. 35 huh. Whatever would make him think that your husband would even think that was funny? I am so happy you texted back what you did Ducks. You get um girl.

qsducks;1151564 wrote: Relax and then have a beer on me.


I think we could both use one!:-5:-5:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl

qsducks;1151564 wrote: Relax and then have a beer on me.
Make that a pitcher and we can all relax. Maybe play cards too. Oh what fun that would be. :yh_dance

Odie;1149536 wrote: There comes a time in life where they can no more.

When we re-signed certain care-life papers last year, we made it so mom would not receive anything to keep her alive.:-1


Yeah, my grandma has a DNR signed too. Her poor old body is wearing out....but what else can you expect at 91. :-4 It sounds like you made the right decision about your mom, it's a very painful and thing knowing that if they stop breathing they'll just die. Just keep in mind how she will be going to a better place...one with no pain and a sharp mind. You know I'm always available to you to talk to, but I check my e-mails a lot more than FG.

JAB;1149706 wrote: D*** snow plower people! I came home to a nicely paved parking lot in my development only to find they shoved a whole pile of it right in my parking space! The heavy frozen street plow stuff that I had to shovel away so I could park my car! :-5


Sounds like it's time to file a complaint!

shelbell;1152308 wrote: Yeah, my grandma has a DNR signed too. Her poor old body is wearing out....but what else can you expect at 91. :-4 It sounds like you made the right decision about your mom, it's a very painful and thing knowing that if they stop breathing they'll just die. Just keep in mind how she will be going to a better place...one with no pain and a sharp mind. You know I'm always available to you to talk to, but I check my e-mails a lot more than FG.


I know your always here for me, and it was a hard decision as in previous decisions we always opted for full care if anything should happen.

but with so much deterioration, we now want what is for best for her, not for us.

nok;1149831 wrote: Awwwwwwww Shel. You hang in there, hun. Doctors are, in a way, a necessary pain in the *** I do feel for you, though as you go to doctors really often. I do hope that these annoying doctors find a way to ease your pain.

You rock, lady !


Thanks nok, you're pretty cool yourself! You so right, I do go to the doctors a lot. Next Friday, the 13th, they are going to do a couple more tests to see if I may need back surgery again. One of the tests could be very painful...not looking forward to that one at all! :-5:-5

Odie;1152310 wrote: I know your always here for me, and it was a hard decision as in previous decisions we always opted for full care if anything should happen.

but with so much deterioration, we now want what is for best for her, not for us.


That shows so much character Odie...thinking about her first and putting her needs above your own, knowing how much pain it will cause you. :-4

shelbell;1152312 wrote: Thanks nok, you're pretty cool yourself! You so right, I do go to the doctors a lot. Next Friday, the 13th, they are going to do a couple more tests to see if I may need back surgery again. One of the tests could be very painful...not looking forward to that one at all! :-5:-5


I'll keep you in my thoughts Shel and privately salute you with a piece of birthday cake.

qsducks;1152319 wrote: I'll keep you in my thoughts Shel and privately salute you with a piece of birthday cake.


I looooooooooove birthday cake!!! Have a 2nd piece for me!!! Thanks ducky! :-4

qsducks;1152319 wrote: I'll keep you in my thoughts Shel and privately salute you with a piece of birthday cake.


what kind?:sneaky::yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl

shelbell;1152312 wrote: Thanks nok, you're pretty cool yourself! You so right, I do go to the doctors a lot. Next Friday, the 13th, they are going to do a couple more tests to see if I may need back surgery again. One of the tests could be very painful...not looking forward to that one at all! :-5:-5


ouch!

will be finking of you.:-4

shelbell;1152341 wrote: I looooooooooove birthday cake!!! Have a 2nd piece for me!!! Thanks ducky! :-4


It's a Carvel ice cream cake....can't wait, but will continue to lie about my age:wah:

qsducks;1152319 wrote: I'll keep you in my thoughts Shel and privately salute you with a piece of birthday cake.


What kind of cake, but more importantly...when's your b-day????

Odie;1152345 wrote: ouch!

will be finking of you.:-4


Thanks sis! :-4

shelbell;1152400 wrote: What kind of cake, but more importantly...when's your b-day????


Next Friday:wah:

I have got to go and take a nap. My pain doctor put me on Methodone, it doesn't help with the pain, but it sure doesn make me tired...I keep falling asleep here at the computer. :yh_tired:yh_tired:yh_sleep:yh_sleep

shelbell;1152406 wrote: I have got to go and take a nap. My pain doctor put me on Methodone, it doesn't help with the pain, but it sure doesn make me tired...I keep falling asleep here at the computer. :yh_tired:yh_tired:yh_sleep:yh_sleep


Are you joining Odie on the couch for a nanana nap (don't think I was rhyming with bananas:wah:), just spelled it wrong. See ya later Shel...and maybe tonight I will on. Fingers crossed.:wah:

qsducks;1152409 wrote: Are you joining Odie on the couch for a nanana nap (don't think I was rhyming with bananas:wah:), just spelled it wrong. See ya later Shel...and maybe tonight I will on. Fingers crossed.:wah:


Nope, we had a fight so she has to sleep on the couch and I get the bed!!!! :yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl

PS...I don't sleep with girls! :yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl

shelbell;1152421 wrote: Nope, we had a fight so she has to sleep on the couch and I get the bed!!!! :yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl

PS...I don't sleep with girls! :yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl


At my house you can have the chaise lounge:wah: with the remote.

The school baseball team my son joined is having it's first practice tonight and we don't even have a bat:-5

qsducks;1152423 wrote: At my house you can have the chaise lounge:wah: with the remote.


I love my chaise too...sit back and relax...go to sleep. :wah:

shelbell;1152428 wrote: I love my chaise too...sit back and relax...go to sleep. :wah:


Will you be back on later?

qsducks;1152429 wrote: Will you be back on later?


Not sure...I hope so. :driving:

shelbell;1152439 wrote: Not sure...I hope so. :driving:


My daughter is going out tonight so I'm hoping to be here around 8ish.

I am so exhuasted from all the trama that I've been dealing with for almost 2 weeks now. People have told me things that have been said, or things that have been done...I don't remember so much of it. I finally had to leave my home today to take care of things that I just couldn't put off any longer. I can't believe how much a funeral and burial cost. But a lot worse is I never could have imagined how much intense pain is caused by having to bury the love of my life...my soul mate.

shelbell;1160730 wrote: I am so exhuasted from all the trama that I've been dealing with for almost 2 weeks now. People have told me things that have been said, or things that have been done...I don't remember so much of it. I finally had to leave my home today to take care of things that I just couldn't put off any longer. I can't believe how much a funeral and burial cost. But a lot worse is I never could have imagined how much intense pain is caused by having to bury the love of my life...my soul mate.


oh Shell my heart breaks for you.Its an awful time of anyones life,to have to organise a funeral for ur loved one wen u are in so much pain its not fair.I hope you have family to help you Shell.:-4:-4:-4:-4

Shel, I'm soooo sorry to hear about your loss. I'll be here for you ! Your soulmate will always be your soulmate, hun. He is now an angel in heaven looking after you from above. You will see each other again,hun.

Ally;1160763 wrote: oh Shell my heart breaks for you.Its an awful time of anyones life,to have to organise a funeral for ur loved one wen u are in so much pain its not fair.I hope you have family to help you Shell.:-4:-4:-4:-4


My mom has been really good since she knows what it's like to lose your husband that you love so much (my dad was awesome!) Everytime I think I'm going crazy I call her and she assures me that I'm not and she went thru so many of the same things. My girls have been keeping a close eye on mom too...they're such good daughters. :-4

nok;1160814 wrote: Shel, I'm soooo sorry to hear about your loss. I'll be here for you ! Your soulmate will always be your soulmate, hun. He is now an angel in heaven looking after you from above. You will see each other again,hun.


He will be my soul mate forever nok, and that's a wonderful thought. I know he's watching over me and the girls and yes, someday we will be reunited in Heaven. Thanks so much for your suppot nok...it really means a lot to me.

shelbell;1161117 wrote: He will be my soul mate forever nok, and that's a wonderful thought. I know he's watching over me and the girls and yes, someday we will be reunited in Heaven. Thanks so much for your suppot nok...it really means a lot to me.


Afternoon Shelbel. Darn I just get on & guess who shows up. Catch you later.

qsducks;1161118 wrote: Afternoon Shelbel. Darn I just get on & guess who shows up. Catch you later.


Hi ducky. I'll probably leave this up and check it from time to time...I don't have much else to do. Ok, that's a lie, I have lots to do but I don't want too.

shelbell;1161126 wrote: Hi ducky. I'll probably leave this up and check it from time to time...I don't have much else to do. Ok, that's a lie, I have lots to do but I don't want too.


could always get the bike oiled up...:yh_whistl:yh_whistl:p

flopstock;1161134 wrote: could always get the bike oiled up...:yh_whistl:yh_whistl:p


Forget the bike...I need help with all these damn plants and flowers on my kitchen table and don't have a clue of what to do with them all!! I am a plant dummy.

shelbell;1161151 wrote: Forget the bike...I need help with all these damn plants and flowers on my kitchen table and don't have a clue of what to do with them all!! I am a plant dummy.


just water them when they are dry, let them drain in the sink.

...cut off any dead leaves/stalks.

Odie;1161154 wrote: just water them when they are dry, let them drain in the sink.

...cut off any dead leaves/stalks.


I'm trying Odie, but a lot of them hafta be planted but I don't know which is which. I'm good at killing plants, not growing them. :wah:

How you feeling today? Any better?

shelbell;1161159 wrote: I'm trying Odie, but a lot of them hafta be planted but I don't know which is which. I'm good at killing plants, not growing them. :wah:

How you feeling today? Any better?


still in pain, but that's normal.



If you don't like them, maybe give them to your family or neighbours.



sounds like you have alot!:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl

Odie;1161162 wrote: still in pain, but that's normal.



If you don't like them, maybe give them to your family or neighbours.



sounds like you have alot!:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl


I do have a lot...most of my kitchen table. I want to keep them and plant them in a little garden for Grant. I know how to water them once they're outside. I just don't know which stay in and ones that go out. I think I'll beg floppy to come up and help me!

shelbell;1161169 wrote: I do have a lot...most of my kitchen table. I want to keep them and plant them in a little garden for Grant. I know how to water them once they're outside. I just don't know which stay in and ones that go out. I think I'll beg floppy to come up and help me!


if these are indoor plants, you can't plant them outdoors babe.

Odie;1161203 wrote: if these are indoor plants, you can't plant them outdoors babe.


That's the problem...some are indoor plants and some are outdoor plants...I just don't know which ones are which.

shelbell;1161225 wrote: That's the problem...some are indoor plants and some are outdoor plants...I just don't know which ones are which.


so where did you get these from?

Odie;1161278 wrote: so where did you get these from?


All from the funeral. Jessi's co-workers gave her another plant tonight and her boyfriend gave her some roses!!! Plants are taking over my house!!

shelbell;1161279 wrote: All from the funeral. Jessi's co-workers gave her another plant tonight and her boyfriend gave her some roses!!! Plants are taking over my house!!


okay........much better.......those are all indoor plants babe.:-4

Odie;1161280 wrote: okay........much better.......those are all indoor plants babe.:-4


Some of these things I was sure they are outdoor plants...hmmmmm

shelbell;1161295 wrote: Some of these things I was sure they are outdoor plants...hmmmmm


what made you think that?

Florists always use indoor plants, any plants for outdoors would never survive inside.

are they tagged or marked?

Odie;1161296 wrote: what made you think that?

Florists always use indoor plants, any plants for outdoors would never survive inside.

are they tagged or marked?


Some are marked, but only about half of them.

If they're all indoor plants then I'm screwed....well the plants are screwed...they'll last 2 weeks...tops.:wah:

shelbell;1161299 wrote: Some are marked, but only about half of them.

If they're all indoor plants then I'm screwed....well the plants are screwed...they'll last 2 weeks...tops.:wah:


hmmmm not sure what to say unless I saw them or know the names.

Odie;1161301 wrote: hmmmm not sure what to say unless I saw them or know the names.


Ok, let's make a post and I'll put the names and/or the descriptions down and see if we can crack this case open.