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I wanted to but Jim and Sam talked me out of it, with hindsight it was probably the best thing as I don't think I'd of done much talking

We have told Sam that if he goes near that boy he has to hit him, if he doesn't and the boy wallops him, then Jim and I will go round to see the parents, they are supposed to be really rough, always in trouble with the police and the kids constantly fighting :-5



Poor Jnr Minks, truth of it is, even if he tries his best it will probably be too little too late. Kids sum up grown ups far quicker than what we think.

You are being a great Mum encouraging contact and giving pointers to him, but IMO Jnr is old enough to know how she feels and I wouldn't push anything, when will these type of guys realise that our children are not something that they can pick up and put down whenever they feel like it? :rolleyes:

That is something that I have always admired about Jim, he has always made a great effort to see all his kids.

Ahhhh Suzy and Mel:-4, So sorry for you troubles. We always worry about our children and want the best for them. Hope both children can resolve these problems. People can be so rotten and mean. I just don't understand that attitude or reasoning:mad:

Thanks KE :-4

SuzyB I heard an interesting commercial on the radio lately and the only thing that stuck in my mind was this quote "9 out of 10" bullies will stop their actions when called out" Basically what it was saying is if anyone stands up to a bully and tells them to stop there is a good chance they will stop, sadly I would guess they would move on to easier prey

I hope your son gets a good shot in.

minks;695850 wrote: Thanks KE :-4

SuzyB I heard an interesting commercial on the radio lately and the only thing that stuck in my mind was this quote "9 out of 10" bullies will stop their actions when called out" Basically what it was saying is if anyone stands up to a bully and tells them to stop there is a good chance they will stop, sadly I would guess they would move on to easier prey

I hope your son gets a good shot in.




Thanks Minks :-4



Thanks Kathy :-4

Suzy,that was crappy of that kid to do that.

I can only imagine how you feel,I would want to hit the little $hit myself if I were you.



:)

FuzzyNavel;695858 wrote: Suzy,that was crappy of that kid to do that.

I can only imagine how you feel,I would want to hit the little $hit myself if I were you.



:)


Thanks Fuzzy.

Well my logic was if i walloped the mother then her Son wouldn't dare touch Sam again, but now i've calmed down I am glad that Jim and Sam told me to drive home I won't leave it if he touches him again!

LondonFan of MJ!;557636 wrote:

I bunked the day off of work.....
Does that mean you called off at work? I wanted to call in sick too, but I went to work and left at lunch.

Aww Suzy, that pisses me off! I didn't look at this thread till now or I would have commented sooner. I don't know...kids, especially boys tend to be super protective of their moms; if you belted her one, he might take it out more on Sam. And sadly you can't hit the rotten kid because you'd go to jail. When this was happening to me, I took it for years until one day I had had enough and I fought back. It only took one time and they finally left me alone. Do you think Sam might be that way? That when he's had his full, he might set them right? I sure hope so. This is just disgusting and I know if it were my kid being mistreated, I would want to sort them out too. Well, I don't have any suggestions but I wanted to let you know I'm empathizing with Sam. Kids can be the biggest jerks! I see nothing's changed in the 20 some years I've been out of school. Rotten little putzes!

i feel ok today after feeling so upset yesterday. :-6:-6:-6

neffy;696009 wrote: i feel ok today after feeling so upset yesterday. :-6:-6:-6


Neffy - I'm glad you're feeling better darlin :-4

Back to earth with a bang today. First day back to work after 2 weeks off....

i know pink that is the only probs you need a hoilday to get over your last hols:wah::wah:

neffy;696052 wrote: i know pink that is the only probs you need a hoilday to get over your last hols:wah::wah:


Tell me about it!! I'm booking my next one as we speak!!:wah::wah:

I'm not awake yet....I'll get back to you in a few hours....in the midst of the "tuesday morning after a big football game shuffle"....got two boys out of the house and one is still sleeping....and ugh....get this carcus into the shower....:-5:-5

I think I left by brain on the pillow this morning!!:rolleyes:

Feel a bit dis-jointed

My eyes feel pretty bad today:-3

kazalala;696666 wrote: My eyes feel pretty bad today:-3


Hey Kaz - what's up with your eyes chick?

pinkchick;696669 wrote: Hey Kaz - what's up with your eyes chick?


Dunno? i do use reading glasses to read the paper etc. but never usually need them for computer. But they just feel pretty bad today quite fuzzy as if they just suddenly decided to stop working :wah:

kazalala;696672 wrote: Dunno? i do use reading glasses to read the paper etc. but never usually need them for computer. But they just feel pretty bad today quite fuzzy as if they just suddenly decided to stop working :wah:


Oh dear Have you tried some Optrex hun?

pinkchick;696673 wrote: Oh dear Have you tried some Optrex hun?


Nope.. not got any:wah: Oh im sure they are just having a bad day:wah:

kazalala;696674 wrote: Nope.. not got any:wah: Oh im sure they are just having a bad day:wah:


I hope your pain doesn't last too long pet

pinkchick;696680 wrote: I hope your pain doesn't last too long pet


It wont, im taking my eyes to a prty tonight, so that'l cheer em up:wah: and now im off to prepare the food for said party, Tale care PC:-4:D

kazalala;696683 wrote: It wont, im taking my eyes to a prty tonight, so that'l cheer em up:wah: and now im off to prepare the food for said party, Tale care PC:-4:D


Enjoy the party

hung over yet again.:yh_sick

minks;696725 wrote: hung over yet again.:yh_sick


ditto

:yh_sick

JacksDad;696729 wrote: ditto

:yh_sick


oh dear maybe we need a meeting.

Felt pretty stressed earlier.

I was sitting in the living room feeding the baby and my was was stood in the kitchen with the hose turned on from outside.

So put baby on the floor to play with her toys, went to mop up the water, i come back in and Kayleigh is laying on the baby, so had to shout at her to get off.

GOD...haven't even got time to scratch my arse these days, getting fed up of saying " Don't do that, get away from there, don't push your sister off the couch and stop laying on the baby"

:(

I've had too much caffeine again! :yh_hypno :yh_silly

sunny104;696757 wrote: I've had too much caffeine again! :yh_hypno :yh_silly


that is evident by looking at your av hehehehe

a little scared.

SlipStream;696786 wrote: a little scared.


why so slips whats up?

:mad::mad::mad:

Today, I was agitated. All day. Didn't matter what was going on, I was agitated about everything.

I want to apologise for going a little of the beaten track here. But this post is on topic and I am posing a real "how I feel today" question.

OK, people, i know there are some experts out there. Tell me if I need to see a therapist.

Some days I am so down, that I cry all day and think about suicide. Then, like magic, the next day I will be whistling, singing and happy as a clam. What is wrong with me?

I'm fifty-two and nearly at the end of menopause. I no longer have to worry about birth control.

I have a less then perfect married life.

I'm middle class with two grown children and grandchildren.

I'm a loner.

I work seven days a week.

Somebody tell me please, why I swing from one spectrum of emotion to another in a twenty four hour period. The rest of the time I'm pretty even.

I'm no doctor in the medical or therapeutic sense, but... it sounds like it could be a lot of things... all of which a psychiatrist or medical doctor could certainly help you with. It certainly sounds like a serious issue that needs to be taken seriously, immediately.

good day!! happy, peaceful...and productive...and i goofed off a while...

I feel a little sore, last night I experienced my first deep tissue massage....ouuccchhhh, but a good one....muscles are screamin' at me this morning.....they didn't like bein' disturbed!

nervous, hungover and hungry. Think I'll get me some ribs for lunch! :yh_drool

Wonderwendy

I just had a massage for my Birthday - wonderful, but I too am sore.

Then I sat at casino machines for hours - I woke up this morning with a Charlie Horse from hell - ever had one ??

The calf of my leg was like a 2x4, couldn't move - ooouch..

I have another massage scheduled this Friday - it hurt so good.!!

DH

Explain these feelings to your medical Doctor - hormones have a unexpected way of putting a woman all over the map of emotions.. I can cry at commercials...

Good luck

Patsy

double helix;697133 wrote: Today, I was agitated. All day. Didn't matter what was going on, I was agitated about everything.

I want to apologise for going a little of the beaten track here. But this post is on topic and I am posing a real "how I feel today" question.

OK, people, i know there are some experts out there. Tell me if I need to see a therapist.

Some days I am so down, that I cry all day and think about suicide. Then, like magic, the next day I will be whistling, singing and happy as a clam. What is wrong with me?

I'm fifty-two and nearly at the end of menopause. I no longer have to worry about birth control.

I have a less then perfect married life.

I'm middle class with two grown children and grandchildren.

I'm a loner.

I work seven days a week.

Somebody tell me please, why I swing from one spectrum of emotion to another in a twenty four hour period. The rest of the time I'm pretty even.


yes get ye to the Doctor, could be anything from Diet to Depression, start first with your Doctor.

Worried

like the bottom fell out my sanity.

SlipStream;697915 wrote: like the bottom fell out my sanity.


You've come to the right place then :wah::wah:

Patsy Warnick;697399 wrote: Wonderwendy

I just had a massage for my Birthday - wonderful, but I too am sore.

Then I sat at casino machines for hours - I woke up this morning with a Charlie Horse from hell - ever had one ??

The calf of my leg was like a 2x4, couldn't move - ooouch..

I have another massage scheduled this Friday - it hurt so good.!!

DH

Explain these feelings to your medical Doctor - hormones have a unexpected way of putting a woman all over the map of emotions.. I can cry at commercials...

Good luck

Patsy


Hey Patsy,

Pinch the heart of your lip (top middle part) and keep pinching until the charlie horse is gone...Works every time for me. If you have a headache, keep pinching the skin between you thumb and forefinger.

Hope this works.

Very excited! My friend's coming home from Iraq today!! :yh_party:yh_party:yh_dance:yh_dance

I feel so happy. I am getting paid this week. And I just drove to the new library and got a new library card and saw the downtown area where there are lots of cafes and stores where I can shop.

And! I had a good day at work. And!I get to go to bed early.

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Good night all.....just back from "Back to School Night." (for those who don't know what a BTSN is.......it's greeting your classroom parents in Sept. and letting them all about your plans for the year),

This was a very successful night....parents were great and laughed at my jokes. BUT, it is stressful at time trying to get the kidlets organized in September and then planning the BTSN.

Cheers everyone, off to bed with a cosmo:-4

Kathy Ellen;699524 wrote: Good night all.....just back from "Back to School Night." (for those who don't know what a BTSN is.......it's greeting your classroom parents in Sept. and letting them all about your plans for the year),

This was a very successful night....parents were great and laughed at my jokes. BUT, it is stressful at time trying to get the kidlets organized in September and then planning the BTSN.

Cheers everyone, off to bed with a cosmo




:-4:-4 Bless you Kathy, thanks for being a good teacher!!



As for how I feel....I had ANOTHER deep tissue massage, this time she worked on my bad leg....OUCHHHHH, but ahhhhhh later....now I'm nice and relaxed :yh_sleep