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G#Gill;840162 wrote: Oh hello Carol, you are here then !!! :wah::wah:
Na Im her sister............Im more glam and not as nasty as that old so and so:D
Na Im her sister............Im more glam and not as nasty as that old so and so:D
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kayleneaussie;840172 wrote: no, I dont want to.......gunna go have a Milo:D
:-3
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G#Gill;840170 wrote: Oh well, you've all gone, must be the soap I'm not using again !!:( :rolleyes:
I'll have a go in the arcade then, praps see you later ---- :-3
Ere Carol, I hope you got me text this morning mate :-3 :)Gill today I switched over to a new network with a new number.....I will text you an then you will have it;)Soooooo no I didnt get yer message!!
I'll have a go in the arcade then, praps see you later ---- :-3
Ere Carol, I hope you got me text this morning mate :-3 :)Gill today I switched over to a new network with a new number.....I will text you an then you will have it;)Soooooo no I didnt get yer message!!
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hello,
im sitting here with a badly swollen ankle again, it just dosnt seem to want get better.
anyway the doc told me to put a bag of frozen peas or what ever on it........... i havnt got any so.......... i've got a 2lb pack of bacon on there:rolleyes: its done the trick and the dog thinks i smell wonderful:wah::wah:
im sitting here with a badly swollen ankle again, it just dosnt seem to want get better.
anyway the doc told me to put a bag of frozen peas or what ever on it........... i havnt got any so.......... i've got a 2lb pack of bacon on there:rolleyes: its done the trick and the dog thinks i smell wonderful:wah::wah:
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Tony Curtis is on the tele in an interview at 9pm.....his 83.............OMG!!!!:-2
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Helen;840186 wrote: hello,
im sitting here with a badly swollen ankle again, it just dosnt seem to want get better.
anyway the doc told me to put a bag of frozen peas or what ever on it........... i havnt got any so.......... i've got a 2lb pack of bacon on there:rolleyes: its done the trick and the dog thinks i smell wonderful:wah::wah:
Hehehe ouch poor you Helen, I hope you ankle gets better soon!! :-6
im sitting here with a badly swollen ankle again, it just dosnt seem to want get better.
anyway the doc told me to put a bag of frozen peas or what ever on it........... i havnt got any so.......... i've got a 2lb pack of bacon on there:rolleyes: its done the trick and the dog thinks i smell wonderful:wah::wah:
Hehehe ouch poor you Helen, I hope you ankle gets better soon!! :-6
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Helen;840186 wrote: hello,
im sitting here with a badly swollen ankle again, it just dosnt seem to want get better.
anyway the doc told me to put a bag of frozen peas or what ever on it........... i havnt got any so.......... i've got a 2lb pack of bacon on there:rolleyes: its done the trick and the dog thinks i smell wonderful:wah::wah:Helen what he is actually saying is..............put something ice cold on it and peas are normally used but when I had to get swelling down I used wheat bags...you buy them...mind you I sold them at the time so that was handy:wah:......you freeze it and use that...but remember you can also use those blue fings you put in the freezer.....its just to help the swelling or inflamation;)
im sitting here with a badly swollen ankle again, it just dosnt seem to want get better.
anyway the doc told me to put a bag of frozen peas or what ever on it........... i havnt got any so.......... i've got a 2lb pack of bacon on there:rolleyes: its done the trick and the dog thinks i smell wonderful:wah::wah:Helen what he is actually saying is..............put something ice cold on it and peas are normally used but when I had to get swelling down I used wheat bags...you buy them...mind you I sold them at the time so that was handy:wah:......you freeze it and use that...but remember you can also use those blue fings you put in the freezer.....its just to help the swelling or inflamation;)
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Hello Everyone!
just thought i'd let you know, Mom was alright this morning.
she was yakking away with her buddies as usual.
it's just my own paranoid brain at work again i guess.
anyway, have a nice day.
just thought i'd let you know, Mom was alright this morning.
she was yakking away with her buddies as usual.
it's just my own paranoid brain at work again i guess.
anyway, have a nice day.
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Hope6;840208 wrote: Hello Everyone!
just thought i'd let you know, Mom was alright this morning.
she was yakking away with her buddies as usual.
it's just my own paranoid brain at work again i guess.
anyway, have a nice day.
Glad to hear that Hope :-6
just thought i'd let you know, Mom was alright this morning.
she was yakking away with her buddies as usual.
it's just my own paranoid brain at work again i guess.
anyway, have a nice day.
Glad to hear that Hope :-6
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Carolly;840195 wrote: Helen what he is actually saying is..............put something ice cold on it and peas are normally used but when I had to get swelling down I used wheat bags...you buy them...mind you I sold them at the time so that was handy:wah:......you freeze it and use that...but remember you can also use those blue fings you put in the freezer.....its just to help the swelling or inflamation;)
got one of them aswell......... trouble is, they are hard and dont bend round yer ankle like a pack of peas
got one of them aswell......... trouble is, they are hard and dont bend round yer ankle like a pack of peas

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Im watching Tony Curtis now............oh goodness ........cant say much else.
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Hope6;840208 wrote: Hello Everyone!
just thought i'd let you know, Mom was alright this morning.
she was yakking away with her buddies as usual.
it's just my own paranoid brain at work again i guess.
anyway, have a nice day.
That's great news, I'm really happy for you both Hope! :-6
just thought i'd let you know, Mom was alright this morning.
she was yakking away with her buddies as usual.
it's just my own paranoid brain at work again i guess.
anyway, have a nice day.
That's great news, I'm really happy for you both Hope! :-6
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Hope6;840208 wrote: Hello Everyone!
just thought i'd let you know, Mom was alright this morning.
she was yakking away with her buddies as usual.
it's just my own paranoid brain at work again i guess.
anyway, have a nice day.Glad to hear it and you have a nice day also.
just thought i'd let you know, Mom was alright this morning.
she was yakking away with her buddies as usual.
it's just my own paranoid brain at work again i guess.
anyway, have a nice day.Glad to hear it and you have a nice day also.
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Trunk Monkey;840214 wrote: Glad to hear that Hope :-6
Thank you TM
i don't feel right until i've heard from her every morning.
Thank you TM
i don't feel right until i've heard from her every morning.
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chrisb84uk;840223 wrote: That's great news, I'm really happy for you both Hope! :-6
thanks Chris, it;s just me worrying again!
thanks Chris, it;s just me worrying again!
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Carolly;840224 wrote: Glad to hear it and you have a nice day also.
Thank you Carol
i have a cousin who last year went to his dad's house, couldn't get him to come to the door, had to break in to get in the house and found him dead.
i worry that i'm gonna have to do the same thing one day.
Thank you Carol
i have a cousin who last year went to his dad's house, couldn't get him to come to the door, had to break in to get in the house and found him dead.
i worry that i'm gonna have to do the same thing one day.
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Hope6;840234 wrote: Thank you Carol
i have a cousin who last year went to his dad's house, couldn't get him to come to the door, had to break in to get in the house and found him dead.
i worry that i'm gonna have to do the same thing one day.I get vibes....most of them true.....I knew that my mother in law was in trouble who lived 50 miles away.......I rung the police and asked them to go round.........they found her dead in the bathroom...........a heart attack.
i have a cousin who last year went to his dad's house, couldn't get him to come to the door, had to break in to get in the house and found him dead.
i worry that i'm gonna have to do the same thing one day.I get vibes....most of them true.....I knew that my mother in law was in trouble who lived 50 miles away.......I rung the police and asked them to go round.........they found her dead in the bathroom...........a heart attack.
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Carolly;840187 wrote: Tony Curtis is on the tele in an interview at 9pm.....his 83.............OMG!!!!:-2
wow is he that OLD
wow is he that OLD
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Carolly;840242 wrote: I get vibes....most of them true.....I knew that my mother in law was in trouble who lived 50 miles away.......I rung the police and asked them to go round.........they found her dead in the bathroom...........a heart attack.
The same thing happened to me about my mum. I rang my auntie and she rang the police and they found her dead in bed :-1
The same thing happened to me about my mum. I rang my auntie and she rang the police and they found her dead in bed :-1
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kayleneaussie;840252 wrote: wow is he that OLDYes Kay and he hasnt a hair on his head and I cant believe he used to be such a hunk..........oh God the years can be cruel.

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Hi Kaylene!! :-6
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Carolly;840258 wrote: Yes Kay and he hasnt a hair on his head and I cant believe he used to be such a hunk..........oh God the years can be cruel.
omg i used to be sooooooooooooo inlove with him

omg i used to be sooooooooooooo inlove with him
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Guys Im going for awhile as Im shattered.........hopefully talk later;)
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kayleneaussie;840262 wrote: omg i used to be sooooooooooooo inlove with him
Kay didnt we all...........even with all his face lifts his had over the years he looks so old Kay:(
Kay didnt we all...........even with all his face lifts his had over the years he looks so old Kay:(
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Petal I haved nudged you 3 times this morning.....havent ya got your hearing aids in
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Carolly;840263 wrote: Guys Im going for awhile as Im shattered.........hopefully talk later;)
Carol whats wrong:(
Carol whats wrong:(
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i couldnt get through to my mum one day,i called my daughters and her friends but they wernt talking to her so i called the police, they had to break into her flat as shed had a stroke and knocked the phone over.
they called the ambulance and stayed with her til it came. she recovered from that but sadly died a few weeks later rom something totally unrelated.
they called the ambulance and stayed with her til it came. she recovered from that but sadly died a few weeks later rom something totally unrelated.
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Hi All
Had a right busy week and done lots of overtime..
Hope your all well xxxxxxxx
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Evening Chezzie! :-6
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Well gotta go. Shayden has a visit today and Latesha goes to her nans for the weekend and I havent packed her bag yet. Catcha all later :-4
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chrisb84uk;840280 wrote: Evening Chezzie! :-6
Hi Chris Matey
Just popped in, im off now lol
Hope your ok, speak soon x:-6:-4
Hi Chris Matey
Just popped in, im off now lol
Hope your ok, speak soon x:-6:-4
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Yeah I'm fine thanks Chezzie, sorry you can't stay longer, enjoy the rest of your evening. :-6
You too Kaylene, I hope you enjoy the start of your weekend! :-6
You too Kaylene, I hope you enjoy the start of your weekend! :-6
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hello all:-4 Hope you're all well...
2 days to Florida...sun and fun...can't wait....:-6
2 days to Florida...sun and fun...can't wait....:-6
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Hey kay:-6 How are ya luv:-6
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Helen;840273 wrote: i couldnt get through to my mum one day,i called my daughters and her friends but they wernt talking to her so i called the police, they had to break into her flat as shed had a stroke and knocked the phone over.
they called the ambulance and stayed with her til it came. she recovered from that but sadly died a few weeks later rom something totally unrelated.
oh, i'm sorry to hear that Helen.
my mom lives next door to me there's only our garden between us, so i can walk to her house, so i know i'll be the one to find her if something happens.
the thing is it's us and i have an aunt and a cousin who live in another house on the farm and that's it. we are surrounded by 1,000 acres of forest and the nearest ambulance is 20 minutes away. i'm home alone with the baby and i find myself wondering what do i do if something happens, do i break in first and see what's going on or do i call the ambulance first, what do i do with Jacob while i'm trying to break in? Who can i call to come and be with me, because i don't want to face that alone?
they called the ambulance and stayed with her til it came. she recovered from that but sadly died a few weeks later rom something totally unrelated.
oh, i'm sorry to hear that Helen.
my mom lives next door to me there's only our garden between us, so i can walk to her house, so i know i'll be the one to find her if something happens.
the thing is it's us and i have an aunt and a cousin who live in another house on the farm and that's it. we are surrounded by 1,000 acres of forest and the nearest ambulance is 20 minutes away. i'm home alone with the baby and i find myself wondering what do i do if something happens, do i break in first and see what's going on or do i call the ambulance first, what do i do with Jacob while i'm trying to break in? Who can i call to come and be with me, because i don't want to face that alone?
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Helen,
That's so sad...sorry to hear that...:-6
Hope,
Be careful out there:-6
That's so sad...sorry to hear that...:-6
Hope,
Be careful out there:-6
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Hope6;840356 wrote: oh, i'm sorry to hear that Helen.
my mom lives next door to me there's only our garden between us, so i can walk to her house, so i know i'll be the one to find her if something happens.
the thing is it's us and i have an aunt and a cousin who live in another house on the farm and that's it. we are surrounded by 1,000 acres of forest and the nearest ambulance is 20 minutes away. i'm home alone with the baby and i find myself wondering what do i do if something happens, do i break in first and see what's going on or do i call the ambulance first, what do i do with Jacob while i'm trying to break in? Who can i call to come and be with me, because i don't want to face that alone?
You should get a spare key to your mums house Hope.
my mom lives next door to me there's only our garden between us, so i can walk to her house, so i know i'll be the one to find her if something happens.
the thing is it's us and i have an aunt and a cousin who live in another house on the farm and that's it. we are surrounded by 1,000 acres of forest and the nearest ambulance is 20 minutes away. i'm home alone with the baby and i find myself wondering what do i do if something happens, do i break in first and see what's going on or do i call the ambulance first, what do i do with Jacob while i'm trying to break in? Who can i call to come and be with me, because i don't want to face that alone?
You should get a spare key to your mums house Hope.
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Kathy Ellen;840354 wrote: Hey kay:-6 How are ya luv:-6
Not too bad Kathy, just seem to be running behind with everything today:(
Not too bad Kathy, just seem to be running behind with everything today:(
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kayleneaussie;840369 wrote: You should get a spare key to your mums house Hope.
i have a key, but when she goes to bed at night she has all the chains and bolts on the doors and a storm door that only unlocks from the inside, so the only way to get in is to break in.
i have a key, but when she goes to bed at night she has all the chains and bolts on the doors and a storm door that only unlocks from the inside, so the only way to get in is to break in.
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Hope6;840375 wrote: i have a key, but when she goes to bed at night she has all the chains and bolts on the doors and a storm door that only unlocks from the inside, so the only way to get in is to break in.
oh ok
oh ok
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Well Latesha bag is packed, so while I was doing that I sorted through both hers and Shaydens clothes and chucked some out and packed some away that they had grown out of. I was running out of room to put their clothes. Still got heaps of ironing to do though:(
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kayleneaussie;840414 wrote: Well Latesha bag is packed, so while I was doing that I sorted through both hers and Shaydens clothes and chucked some out and packed some away that they had grown out of. I was running out of room to put their clothes. Still got heaps of ironing to do though:(
I've got the same problem Sis i'm running out of room for Jacob's clothes he's outgrown, he outgrows them so fast!:wah:
i've got a couple of people that are having a hard time that i'm giving some of his clothes to, i guess i need to pack up a box and send some more:)
I've got the same problem Sis i'm running out of room for Jacob's clothes he's outgrown, he outgrows them so fast!:wah:
i've got a couple of people that are having a hard time that i'm giving some of his clothes to, i guess i need to pack up a box and send some more:)
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Well when I get through this ironing their draws will be overflowing again, they have so many clothes.
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I've got a problem with Jacob, that's beginning to worry me!
he's gotten to attached to me, he doesn't want anyone else, it's momma, momma all the time, if i walk out the room he's calling me. he getting to where he doesn't even want his grandma anymore!
i know it's because we are here alone, pretty much all he sees is me all day every day, but that can't be helped.
i carry him next door to visit my mom and he alright playing over there for a while but the whole time he's still talking about momma.
at this rate if i don't figure out something to do, i'll never get him to go to school, some of my aunts are pushing me to home school him anyway, since the schools have gotten so dangerous, the way it's going i may have to, but i want him to learn how to deal with people out in the world and i think school helps kids learn that.
he's gotten to attached to me, he doesn't want anyone else, it's momma, momma all the time, if i walk out the room he's calling me. he getting to where he doesn't even want his grandma anymore!
i know it's because we are here alone, pretty much all he sees is me all day every day, but that can't be helped.
i carry him next door to visit my mom and he alright playing over there for a while but the whole time he's still talking about momma.
at this rate if i don't figure out something to do, i'll never get him to go to school, some of my aunts are pushing me to home school him anyway, since the schools have gotten so dangerous, the way it's going i may have to, but i want him to learn how to deal with people out in the world and i think school helps kids learn that.
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Hope6;840422 wrote: I've got a problem with Jacob, that's beginning to worry me!
he's gotten to attached to me, he doesn't want anyone else, it's momma, momma all the time, if i walk out the room he's calling me. he getting to where he doesn't even want his grandma anymore!
i know it's because we are here alone, pretty much all he sees is me all day every day, but that can't be helped.
i carry him next door to visit my mom and he alright playing over there for a while but the whole time he's still talking about momma.
at this rate if i don't figure out something to do, i'll never get him to go to school, some of my aunts are pushing me to home school him anyway, since the schools have gotten so dangerous, the way it's going i may have to, but i want him to learn how to deal with people out in the world and i think school helps kids learn that.Im not a mother but feel if you dont let him go to school he will become so dependant on you that he wont want to know the outside world at all and thats not healthy.He will need how to meet people....make friends....laugh with others......play with others......and yes even fight with others. These things will help him become a man...............a real man that would want to go out in this big world and become part of it and not one that would be afraid to .You want your lovely boy to turn into a Man Hope and that at times may be hard to do but one day he will realise that everything you ever did was always for Him and for his well being and make him the Man that he will become one day.
he's gotten to attached to me, he doesn't want anyone else, it's momma, momma all the time, if i walk out the room he's calling me. he getting to where he doesn't even want his grandma anymore!
i know it's because we are here alone, pretty much all he sees is me all day every day, but that can't be helped.
i carry him next door to visit my mom and he alright playing over there for a while but the whole time he's still talking about momma.
at this rate if i don't figure out something to do, i'll never get him to go to school, some of my aunts are pushing me to home school him anyway, since the schools have gotten so dangerous, the way it's going i may have to, but i want him to learn how to deal with people out in the world and i think school helps kids learn that.Im not a mother but feel if you dont let him go to school he will become so dependant on you that he wont want to know the outside world at all and thats not healthy.He will need how to meet people....make friends....laugh with others......play with others......and yes even fight with others. These things will help him become a man...............a real man that would want to go out in this big world and become part of it and not one that would be afraid to .You want your lovely boy to turn into a Man Hope and that at times may be hard to do but one day he will realise that everything you ever did was always for Him and for his well being and make him the Man that he will become one day.
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Sorry Kay but I didnt have my MSN on mate as I was just to tired.Its 3.20 am and Im awake but will go back to bed soon.Im in later so hope to have a chat then me little Ozzy peanut;):)
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Carolly;840436 wrote: Im not a mother but feel if you dont let him go to school he will become so dependant on you that he wont want to know the outside world at all and thats not healthy.He will need how to meet people....make friends....laugh with others......play with others......and yes even fight with others. These things will help him become a man...............a real man that would want to go out in this big world and become part of it and not one that would be afraid to .You want your lovely boy to turn into a Man Hope and that at times may be hard to do but one day he will realise that everything you ever did was always for Him and for his well being and make him the Man that he will become one day.
you are exactly right, he needs the experience of school, and with dealing with other people, because i want him to grow up to be a good man, and he needs more of an influence than me, i'm not a very confident, or positive person at the moment, i'm actually quite sad a lot of the time, i don't want those feeling rubbing off on him, but the fact is he's with me every day and he's gonna pick up things from me.
you are exactly right, he needs the experience of school, and with dealing with other people, because i want him to grow up to be a good man, and he needs more of an influence than me, i'm not a very confident, or positive person at the moment, i'm actually quite sad a lot of the time, i don't want those feeling rubbing off on him, but the fact is he's with me every day and he's gonna pick up things from me.
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Hope6;840446 wrote: you are exactly right, he needs the experience of school, and with dealing with other people, because i want him to grow up to be a good man, and he needs more of an influence than me, i'm not a very confident, or positive person at the moment, i'm actually quite sad a lot of the time, i don't want those feeling rubbing off on him, but the fact is he's with me every day and he's gonna pick up things from me.I also know without a shadow of a doubt that you a good mother and loves him more than herself or anybody else in this world.Ok you have some hang ups.....many of us do so your not alone there...but you have to think of Jacob and try to give him a normal,healthy upbringing.I wasnt given one and it will haunt me forever.
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