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nok;1083418 wrote: Oh, this is fun ! I'm going to join in. I have a lot to whine about.

My boss gives me a lot of work to do and barely pays me

My mother always sides with my brother and everyone else ( except me) as well.

My brother is a total ******* and constantly plays dirty tricks on me and criticizes me behind my back so that his friends and mine as well ( believing him) thinks that I'm pure chit and avoid me like I'm some kind of a germ or something.

I do more than my share of the housework because even though there are a lot of people living with me, they refuse to lift a finger to help me. They say that they're not my maid. Well then, what makes them think that I'm their maid in the first place ????

Wheew ! I feel a lot better after all that whining. I'll come back in again ( later) and whine some more. This is a good thread. I really like it. Thanks for starting this thread.




-employers are like that......this way they get to play golf more or just stand around and pretend they are smarter!:wah:

-just do your chores...let everyone else's pile up......they will have to clean sooner or later with a mess like that around.......hehe:yh_rotfl

Shelbell started this thread, and we have all come to love it!:-4

nok;1083418 wrote: Oh, this is fun ! I'm going to join in. I have a lot to whine about.

My boss gives me a lot of work to do and barely pays me

My mother always sides with my brother and everyone else ( except me) as well.

My brother is a total ******* and constantly plays dirty tricks on me and criticizes me behind my back so that his friends and mine as well ( believing him) thinks that I'm pure chit and avoid me like I'm some kind of a germ or something.

I do more than my share of the housework because even though there are a lot of people living with me, they refuse to lift a finger to help me. They say that they're not my maid. Well then, what makes them think that I'm their maid in the first place ????

Wheew ! I feel a lot better after all that whining. I'll come back in again ( later) and whine some more. This is a good thread. I really like it. Thanks for starting this thread.


Sounds like a pain in the a$$ Nok. One thing I've done a few times in the past is go on strike at home. I would take care of my stuff and that's it. When they'd start complaining, I'd tell them to get off their lazy butts and do it themselves...it usually works, but only for awhile...then you have to do it all over again. :wah:

I know what you're talking about with your mom and brother. My brother started some BS 8 yrs ago and of course my mom bought into it...I didn't have any contact with my family for 3 yrs, but I always stood my ground, they were not going to tell me how to run MY life or how to raise MY kids.

Sounds like they are trying to push you around....now it's time to push back. :sneaky:

I'm glad you like my thread, I kinda started it as a joke but it caught on and has kept going. You are welcome here anytime. :-6

Odie;1083143 wrote: you can get there...use the money from your rings, its that important you get there!;)



think about it, not now......just think about it.:-4

what is really more important?

- the rings, you can buy much much cheaper ones.


I'm not sure they would even see me there...I filed bankruptcy on them about 8yrs ago. I had a problem with my toes that no one here could figure out...it ends up that I had had frostbite at one time.

If we cash settle for my rings we won't get much...then we'll never be able to buy a new set because of money problems. I'll try when I get the new insurance at the beginning of the year, it's not that far away to go up there. Plus, I really miss my beautiful rings and want something to be able to wear on my finger. Also I've been to 4 different docs here and they've really tried...it's not their fault that all these things don't work on me. I always tell my mom that when I get to heaven I'm gonna kick my dads butt for passing this onto me. :yh_rotfl

southern yankee;1083145 wrote: GO!!!! my dad had problems. which i was a small child then. don't remember what it was but they found out what was wrong with him and helped him. DON"T GIVE UP SWEETY:-4 it is in Rodchester MN. right??


Yeah, and they've helped me before too. I will keep that open as an option.

southern yankee;1083131 wrote: well something has to go your way dear:(


:wah::wah: Well today is NOT that day. I woke up to doggie poo all over the house...and I had no paper towels to clean it. I had to put on a rubber glove to pick up what I could, spray it, then clean it up with an old towel we use on Cody when he's got drool hanging out of his mouth...and yes, I threw the glove and the towel in the garbage. :yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl

Well time for getting ready, my 16yr olds Christmas concert is tonight and she wants to make sure we're there. :-4

shelbell;1083999 wrote: Well time for getting ready, my 16yr olds Christmas concert is tonight and she wants to make sure we're there. :-4


huh.......here I am, now your gone, geez!:-5:-5

enjoy her concert!

Odie;1084015 wrote: huh.......here I am, now your gone, geez!:-5:-5

enjoy her concert!


hehehe I'm here for a few minutes again, but not long. :yh_rotfl

i am sleepy...:-3

shelbell;1084102 wrote: hehehe I'm here for a few minutes again, but not long. :yh_rotfl i am here then Shelbell goes. What is up with that??:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl

guppy;1084108 wrote: i am sleepy...:-3


now that's a complaint!:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl

go get some rest hun!

southern yankee;1084115 wrote: i am here then Shelbell goes. What is up with that??:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl


so let me get this right, were all here now right?:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl

shelbell;1083878 wrote: I'm not sure they would even see me there...I filed bankruptcy on them about 8yrs ago. I had a problem with my toes that no one here could figure out...it ends up that I had had frostbite at one time.

If we cash settle for my rings we won't get much...then we'll never be able to buy a new set because of money problems. I'll try when I get the new insurance at the beginning of the year, it's not that far away to go up there. Plus, I really miss my beautiful rings and want something to be able to wear on my finger. Also I've been to 4 different docs here and they've really tried...it's not their fault that all these things don't work on me. I always tell my mom that when I get to heaven I'm gonna kick my dads butt for passing this onto me. :yh_rotfl


ohhhhhhhhh the truth comes out!:rolleyes::yh_rotfl

Odie;1084126 wrote: so let me get this right, were all here now right?:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl no Sheibell flew the coop:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl

southern yankee;1084174 wrote: no Sheibell flew the coop:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl


ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!:-5:-5:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl

Odie;1084176 wrote: ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!:-5:-5:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl
What's ya doin, ODIE:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl

southern yankee;1084186 wrote: What's ya doin, ODIE:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl


talking to my favorite sis!:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl

Shelbell, Thanks so much for your comforting words and for understanding. I really appreciate it !

Have a Great Day ! You certainly deserve it !

Odie;1084218 wrote: talking to my favorite sis!:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl


Ok, I see how you are. :-1 :yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl

Odie;1084164 wrote: ohhhhhhhhh the truth comes out!:rolleyes::yh_rotfl


What truth? Haven't you learned by now that I'm a very open person?

shelbell;1085012 wrote: Ok, I see how you are. :-1 :yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl


don't be silly sis!:-4

nok;1084327 wrote: Shelbell, Thanks so much for your comforting words and for understanding. I really appreciate it !

Have a Great Day ! You certainly deserve it !


Anytime nok. You have a great day too!!! :-6

shelbell;1085016 wrote: What truth? Haven't you learned by now that I'm a very open person?


you are.....and that's why me loves ya!:-6



what have you been doing all day?

Odie;1085023 wrote: don't be silly sis!:-4


I know sis...I just had to tease.

We heard from the insurance today that they may be able to get the manufacturer of my rings to make a new set just like mine! That would be so awesome!

shelbell;1085029 wrote: I know sis...I just had to tease.

We heard from the insurance today that they may be able to get the manufacturer of my rings to make a new set just like mine! That would be so awesome!


really? I would have never thought possible, excellent, I love it when a plan comes together!:-6

Odie;1085026 wrote: you are.....and that's why me loves ya!:-6



what have you been doing all day?


Well I slept til 2:30...didn't go to sleep til 6:30am so I watched some movies til I could fall asleep. Today my oldest came over cuz she wanted some of her grandma's Italian cookie recipes which I have. Then youngest came home with her boyfriend and then hubby came home. My baby(Cody my doggie) is feeling better too.:-4

I love ya too sweetie. :-4

Odie;1085033 wrote: really? I would have never thought possible, excellent, I love it when a plan comes together!:-6


They're not positive but it would be awesome. I should find out Monday or Tuesday.

southern yankee;1084174 wrote: no Sheibell flew the coop:yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl


Now I'm in the coop and you're not. :yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl

shelbell;1085036 wrote: Well I slept til 2:30...didn't go to sleep til 6:30am so I watched some movies til I could fall asleep. Today my oldest came over cuz she wanted some of her grandma's Italian cookie recipes which I have. Then youngest came home with her boyfriend and then hubby came home. My baby(Cody my doggie) is feeling better too.:-4

I love ya too sweetie. :-4


wow, such long horrid nights when we can't sleep!:-5

any cookies left?:yh_rotfl

what was wrong with Cody?

Odie;1085023 wrote: don't be silly sis!:-4


BTW....I love that pic of Costner as your avatar....he's so hot.

Odie;1085042 wrote: wow, such long horrid nights when we can't sleep!:-5

any cookies left?:yh_rotfl

what was wrong with Cody?


That's what I do a lot...being an insomniac doesn't help and no sleeping pills work. Go figure! :yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl

No cookies even made yet...

Cody had tummy probs all day yesterday. Ick!

shelbell;1085046 wrote: That's what I do a lot...being an insomniac doesn't help and no sleeping pills work. Go figure! :yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl

No cookies even made yet...

Cody had tummy probs all day yesterday. Ick!


the cats sometimes do also..........glad he is better!

off to the oybgen.....another story of my life!

shelbell;1085045 wrote: BTW....I love that pic of Costner as your avatar....he's so hot.


he is indeed!

Odie;1085056 wrote: the cats sometimes do also..........glad he is better!

off to the oybgen.....another story of my life!


Oh, Have fun with that.

shelbell;1085063 wrote: Oh, Have fun with that.


oh yeah, that was fun!:-5:-5

:yh_hugsIt's time to whine...... I looove it ! :-4 It's so great to be able to get things out of my system.

Here goes:

My insomnia is getting to the point where I barely get any sleep at night. I'm awake practically all night ( except for maybe 3 hours of sleep ).

I'm eating too much lately and I can't help it. Everything seems so delicious that even when I'm not hungry, I eat. I wasn't like this before.

The people around me keep telling me that I'm short, fat, ugly and stupid. I wish that if they can't say anything nice about me, they would keep their mouths shut.

Thanks for that whine time. Ooooohhhh, it feels soooo good to get that out of my system again. This thread is really therapeutic for me. :-6

nok;1085245 wrote: :yh_hugsIt's time to whine...... I looove it ! :-4 It's so great to be able to get things out of my system.

Here goes:

My insomnia is getting to the point where I barely get any sleep at night. I'm awake practically all night ( except for maybe 3 hours of sleep ).

I'm eating too much lately and I can't help it. Everything seems so delicious that even when I'm not hungry, I eat. I wasn't like this before.

The people around me keep telling me that I'm short, fat, ugly and stupid. I wish that if they can't say anything nice about me, they would keep their mouths shut.

Thanks for that whine time. Ooooohhhh, it feels soooo good to get that out of my system again. This thread is really therapeutic for me. :-6




insomnia: these will help.

-if you can't sleep within 20 min...don't stay in bed, get up and read or watch t.v...it gets your mind off whatever is on it.

-also put a little tiny fan on your night stand, if will you keep your mind focused on the noise.

-stay off the computer...although you think its relaxing, its not.

-no caffeine, hot baths or showers 2 hours before bed......people tend to think they are relaxing when in fact it raises your heart rate.

-go to bed at the same time every night, set your alarm for 8 hours later......you may not sleep that entire time, but eventually your body will get so tired...you will sleep....no afternoon naps.

and the people around you?.......ignore them, they are not friends.

try and cut back on your food, your like this now because your unhappy and sleep deprived......when we are unhappy, we tend to eat much more.

hope this helps!:-6

Odie;1085159 wrote: oh yeah, that was fun!:-5:-5


I'm so glad you enjoyed it sis! ICK! I wish I knew why God made us women have to go thru so much more crap than men. :-5:-5

nok;1085245 wrote: :yh_hugsIt's time to whine...... I looove it ! :-4 It's so great to be able to get things out of my system.

Here goes:

My insomnia is getting to the point where I barely get any sleep at night. I'm awake practically all night ( except for maybe 3 hours of sleep ).

I'm eating too much lately and I can't help it. Everything seems so delicious that even when I'm not hungry, I eat. I wasn't like this before.

The people around me keep telling me that I'm short, fat, ugly and stupid. I wish that if they can't say anything nice about me, they would keep their mouths shut.

Thanks for that whine time. Ooooohhhh, it feels soooo good to get that out of my system again. This thread is really therapeutic for me. :-6


Here's a couple of thoughts for you. I also have insomnia, I don't go to bed until I'm so tired I can hardly see straight...then I totally crash. Insomnia can be a symptom of other things. Ask your primary doc about refering you to get a sleep study done...you may have sleep apnea.

With all the negativity going on around you talk to a psychiatrist about the possibility of depression...this could also be why you're not sleeping and over eating. It's so easy to pretend these things that you're hearing don't bother you, but if you hear them long enough, you will start to believe them.

The ones putting you down are more than likely to have their own insecuritites, they will make fun of, or put someone else down to make themselves feel better about themselves or to look better than you to other people. I've dealt with all these things and know it's not easy.

Lastly, know that you are accepted here. We don't care how you look, what race, religion (if you have one or not), how tall or short you are, how much you weigh or anything else. We are all friends in this thread and only want to support each other. You don't even have to do that, you are ALWAYS welcome to come on here and vent.

I'm sorry if I seem to give you too much advice, it's just that I've dealt with so many things that you talk about that it's creepy! :wah:

You seem to have a good heart hun and we won't judge you...you can say anything you'd like to here. :-6:-4

shelbell;1085672 wrote: I'm so glad you enjoyed it sis! ICK! I wish I knew why God made us women have to go thru so much more crap than men. :-5:-5


yeah, more meds and creams!:-5

Odie;1085685 wrote: yeah, more meds and creams!:-5


How are you doing after yesterday?

shelbell;1085691 wrote: How are you doing after yesterday?


oh wonderful, just some burning !:-5

Odie;1085699 wrote: oh wonderful, just some burning !:-5


That does not sound like fun!

shelbell;1085704 wrote: That does not sound like fun!


tis the usual every six months for a month straight!

Odie;1085720 wrote: tis the usual every six months for a month straight!


Yuck! Now that really doesn't sound fun!

shelbell;1085729 wrote: Yuck! Now that really doesn't sound fun!


tis my fault from many many many years ago!:-5:-5

Odie;1085731 wrote: tis my fault from many many many years ago!:-5:-5


That sucks sis. I'm sorry you have to go thru this so often.

Time for me to fly, at least for awhile. I'm sure hubby is feeling ignored by now. :yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl

shelbell;1085788 wrote: Time for me to fly, at least for awhile. I'm sure hubby is feeling ignored by now. :yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl


mine's not......he is catching up on all his taped car shows.

Odie;1085799 wrote: mine's not......he is catching up on all his taped car shows.


Here I flew outta here and we started watching a movie...I fell asleep about 10 minutes into it! :yh_rotfl:yh_rotfl