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Lulu2 wrote: Cher'.... like you, after the first shock, I thought about how terribly expensive this is going to be (and over many years, I'm afraid.) If that #$%&* driver doesn't have insurance...we need to know NOW!


I'm sure that if that is the case, we'll all try and do something to help.:-4

Lulu2 wrote: Cher'.... like you, after the first shock, I thought about how terribly expensive this is going to be (and over many years, I'm afraid.) If that #$%&* driver doesn't have insurance...we need to know NOW!


Forget about the wanker who did this to her - Does BR have adequate insurance to make sure she gets all the very best treatment . Im sure (i could be wrong ) i remember her saying that her insurance ran out because hubby had lost his job - is there anything we can do to help if thats the case.

Let me know what we decide to do. BR has been a rock for me even though she has been going through hell with Matt. She is a wonderful lady! Ive got the address to her mom's as well. SO Flop doesnt get overloaded with PM's you guys can get me too.

Im sending a care package this evening for the family and some stuff for BR. Let me know if you guys have any ideas for the package.

Im still praying that God holds BR and the family in his hands...

thhis just sucks!!!!

An address has been posted for her, but Not Her last name. Can that be provided?

Lulu2 wrote: Minks, I sent off a card for her to your address. It's on paper I bought in Africa...made of recycled elephant dung! I figure that'll give BR a giggle.

That report from her mom is very scary....I wish they'd make that drunk driver spend every day at her bedside in the hospital!


Oh LU I think I love ya darling, good job, I shopped with Jr Minks last nite for a card for BR it's very girlie and pink says "pedicure? Manicure? I wish every cure was this easy."

I had tears in my eyes this morning however reading the update Bloody hell it's tragic reading that she is back in ICU.

I am so proud of each and everyone of you

I dont mind telling you Im wiping tears away

Erinna1112 wrote: Mail sent to Criss's address will get to her as well. I will be checking it regularly (I'm BR's sister, for those who don't know - I think probably most do, now).

Thank you all for your love and support and prayers. Keep it coming, and between me and floppy we'll keep everyone up to speed.


Oh Erinna Blessings to you and all your family this is such a horrific time. I also have sent out my addy for anyone who wanted to get cards to her, I will forward everything I get to her home addy but it seems we have loads of address's floating around out there. We have all bases covered now we just have to send the power of our good thougts to BR and wish her a speedy and full recovery.

Huggs to you, your family, and bullet and his family as well.

Minks

Marie5656 wrote: An address has been posted for her, but Not Her last name. Can that be provided?


In a PM, but not here.



If you are sending it to her Mom's address, you don't need a last

name. "Criss C/O" etc. will do just fine.



Got to watch the privacy stuff, folks. You never know, sad to say

but you just don't.



Beams, Baby.



:-6

Nomad wrote: No new news yet ? I couldnt sleep last night. I kept waking up thinking of this.

Life is fragile.

I keep thinking about all the hate everywhere, all the killing. If we only all had the opportunity to sit and talk, break bread and drink with eachother. Wouldnt it be different then ? If your enemy was in your home sharing a meal with you. Would he still be your enemy ? Would he feel differently ? Would he still want you dead ?



One day Nomad....one day....maybe not in OUR lifetime, but I have faith in the human race and one day when we're sitting in whatever heaven we believe in, we'll look down at the peace on Earth and say to each ....we knew it would all work out...:-4

flopstock wrote: Just off the phone with MamaRider who just finished meeting with the team of doctors on Br's case at the trauma unit..



Critical but stable at the moment

2 hematoma not just one, 2 collapsed lungs not just one, broken collar bone, contusion on liver..but not too bad they think..



she's at 36 hours... infections tend to start setting in after 48 so they've been very aggressive with antibiotics to try and eliminate as much as possible



Between the medications and injuries she is restless but resting in a coma.



At 72 hours they should have a pretty good idea of all the injuries.. they treat the immediate issues and as time goes past and more tests are performed, others are coming to light.



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Mom is heading out to get some conditioner to try and help her keep her hair... it's matting and the nurses are concerned.. so mom has something to occupy her this afternoon and evening



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The pets are being cared for.



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Matt's sister checked with their attorney about getting him to her. It can be done but family will have to pay for escorts and travel. I told mom to have his sister find out what we need and to let me know. Anyone interested in this aspect pm me and we will go private emails and communication on this item.



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Floppy Bless you for the updates.

I've been awake since a little after 3 a.m. my time thinking about her...



I hurt for her I really do.



Tell mom to braid her hair, it helps.



More and more beams.

Don't you wish we could all pile into her room right about now and feed her strength

flopstock wrote: Just off the phone with MamaRider who just finished meeting with the team of doctors on Br's case at the trauma unit..



Critical but stable at the moment

2 hematoma not just one, 2 collapsed lungs not just one, broken collar bone, contusion on liver..but not too bad they think..



she's at 36 hours... infections tend to start setting in after 48 so they've been very aggressive with antibiotics to try and eliminate as much as possible



Between the medications and injuries she is restless but resting in a coma.



At 72 hours they should have a pretty good idea of all the injuries.. they treat the immediate issues and as time goes past and more tests are performed, others are coming to light.



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Mom is heading out to get some conditioner to try and help her keep her hair... it's matting and the nurses are concerned.. so mom has something to occupy her this afternoon and evening



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The pets are being cared for.



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Matt's sister checked with their attorney about getting him to her. It can be done but family will have to pay for escorts and travel. I told mom to have his sister find out what we need and to let me know. Anyone interested in this aspect pm me and we will go private emails and communication on this item.



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oh goodness! :-1 I'm continuing to pray for Criss and her family....

it's good news though, that it is possible for Matt to go to her...

Floppy there is dry shampoo that can be used. They can also arrange for a hairdresser to come to the hospital and take care of her hair, it is done all the time they may have someone they can reccommend for her mom.

Oh good a visit from Matt might be just what she needs. I know it will help his state of mind as well.

She is in a battle right now so all our prayers will help... :-4 I can think of nothing else either..

Haveing been a bike rider for most of my life my heart and prayers go too you BR.

I have layed few down in my time,the last one putting my life into perspective.

Hang in there,We all came too walk again,And so will you.

I just keep saying prayers over and over again for Br, Bullet, and the family. This is so awful for all of them. I just want to go and give BR hug after hug and tell her to stay strong and keep fighting. I keep thinking bout the saying "God never gives us more than we can handle", but lately I just keep wondering why this on top of all the other problems she has. But I know BR is a fighter, guess that's why I've always pictured her some sort of warrior Princess in my head.

I may not know BR in the flesh, but I've come to love her like a sister on these boards. I'm positive I'm not the only one either.

CheshireCat wrote: Her son has got to be pretty cool. I hope he can get through this last year of High School. This is a lot for a teenager to deal with.


He's going to need all the support he can get - probably more so than anyone bar Criss herself.

Keep him in your thoughts.

You know, every time I check into this thread, I see *so many* names at the bottom of the page -- all you guys have been constantly checking in, too :-4

Criss is surrounded by our love -- I hope she can feel it.

Can you feel it, BR? :-4 :-4

cherandbuster wrote: You know, every time I check into this thread, I see *so many* names at the bottom of the page -- all you guys have been constantly checking in, too :-4

Criss is surrounded by our love -- I hope she can feel it.

Can you feel it, BR? :-4 :-4


we are lucky in the fact we can keep a 24 hour vigil with everyone all over the planet

minks wrote: we are lucky in the fact we can keep a 24 hour vigil with everyone all over the planet


Minxsy

That is AWESOMELY said :-4

tmbsgrl wrote: I agree 100%....



We are so lucky.. We are a great group of friends here.. I think we'd do anything for one another.. It's great.. FG is the Best forum around.. We really are a family, aren't we.






:-6 yes dear

I cried reading these posts.

As Nomad said, we argue about petty stuff but its wonderful and beautiful to see how people just pull together when one of our own needs us!

Get well soon BR, we're all thinking of you and praying for you and hoping you'll be back here with us VERY soon!

Big gentle hugs to you and everyone with you. I wish we could all crowd around your bedside and show you how much we all care.

Rapunzel wrote: we argue about petty stuff but its wonderful and beautiful to see how people just pull together when one of our own needs us!


Just like family :-4 :-6

Sheryl wrote:

I may not know BR in the flesh, but I've come to love her like a sister on these boards. I'm positive I'm not the only one either.


Truer words were never spoken. I feel the EXACT same way I can

hardly believe it.



But I do believe it and I believe in her and her strength. I

KNOW she can do this.



Beams, Baby.



:-6

Update from PapaRider:



"I saw Criss this morning, and she is doing better. She was able to eat

something, and knew me and her mother."

valerie wrote: Update from PapaRider:



"I saw Criss this morning, and she is doing better. She was able to eat

something, and knew me and her mother."








See what love can do ! :-4

It's great to get some good news.....:-4

[quote=valerie]Update from PapaRider:



"I saw Criss this morning, and she is doing better. She was able to eat

something, and knew me and her mother."



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Glory Hallelujah - now the healing can start

valerie wrote: Update from PapaRider:



"I saw Criss this morning, and she is doing better. She was able to eat

something, and knew me and her mother."






At last. Some positive news. My hopes are up now. But my prayers are still beaming.:-4

Oh that is the best part of today.... the news from paparider...

Rapunzel wrote: I cried reading these posts.



As Nomad said, we argue about petty stuff but its wonderful and beautiful to see how people just pull together when one of our own needs us!



Get well soon BR, we're all thinking of you and praying for you and hoping you'll be back here with us VERY soon!



Big gentle hugs to you and everyone with you. I wish we could all crowd around your bedside and show you how much we all care.




Would it be wrong if I copped a quick feel ?

Brilliant news! Thank Goodness! :yh_pray :yh_flower

Bez, I love your candles! :-6

Oh thats wonderfull news!!:yh_party:-6

Nomad wrote: Would it be wrong if I copped a quick feel ?


You don't need to - she's probably already got a drip attached to her!

(Sorry! Not appropriate I know, but I just couldn't resist! )

You don't need to - she's probably already got a drip attached to her!





10.0 ! Bravo !!!

(I'd give it a solid TEN, myself!)

Lulu2 wrote: (I'd give it a solid TEN, myself!)
;) hehehe

I can't believe how things have changed since I read this thread yesterday afternoon, have been away all today and am only just catching up with things.

I am sending healing thoughts and prayers to BR and her family, I hope that she is gaining strength, especially with all of us sending such love and positivity out to her.



Beam to you BR

I think the next 24 hours are very important...infections/consciousness, etc. Let's all hope tomorrow brings even better news!