I put this here

valerie · Post by **valerie** » Thu Mar 15, 2007 5:04 pm

Because bereaved parents is what we are. You'll forgive me for a

copy and paste, it is about all I can do right now.

It is with the very heaviest of hearts that I must tell

you my dear, sweet Tamsen, the most wonderful girl dog

a mommy could ever hope to have, has just passed away.

At home, on her comfy bed, with her head in my lap and

her daddy close by.

Tamsen's spirit was still very willing... she even played

a little with her toys last night... but she was rapidly

losing strength in her hind legs, and her daddy and I

decided it was time to let her go.

Having a vet hug and kiss your girl and tell her how

strong she was and how brave is very touching. I

thanked the vet for the option of keeping Tamsen at

home. It wasn't very easy for them, either, but they

(she and the tech) were the most compassionate I have

known.

Thank you, my Tamsen, for making me laugh, for being

such a good girl from day one; even for making me cry

sometimes, as I am now. For protecting me those times

when you were sure I needed protecting. Most especially

thank you for waiting so patiently in the car while

your daddy and I went in to the JP to get married, and

for celebrating with us afterwards with a cheeseburger

lunch.

I am also comforted to know that Neke and Lando (and

so many others) were there to greet you and show you

around that wonderful golden place called Heaven.

You gave your daddy and me your all for over 14 years,

the last almost 4 with only 3 legs. It was a supreme

effort, you truly were a credit to the fine heritage

of your noble breed.

Run free, my sweetie, I know you are young again and

healthy and chasing bun-buns to your heart's delight.

I will never forget you and will love you until the end

of my days.

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abbey · Post by **abbey** » Thu Mar 15, 2007 5:17 pm

Val and Paul, i can't tell you how sad i feel, i've come to know Tamsen as i have both of you.:-1

My heart goes out to you both, i am so, so sorry.

To Tamsen, i raise my glass and wish a peaceful journey. :-4

Marie5656 · Post by **Marie5656** » Thu Mar 15, 2007 5:20 pm

Tamsen is now romping on all four legs on the other side of the rainbow Bridge.

chonsigirl · Post by **chonsigirl** » Thu Mar 15, 2007 5:31 pm

Your beloved Tamsen is running with the angels, chasing the bunnies, and barking for sheer joy at the love you have both given her.

My loves to you both during this time.

*hugs*

RedGlitter · Post by **RedGlitter** » Thu Mar 15, 2007 5:32 pm

Not sure Valerie if you'll appreciate this from me or not, but I am deeply sorry for you and for Paul. I'm sure you couldn't have been better parents to Tamsen.

Sheryl · Post by **Sheryl** » Thu Mar 15, 2007 5:50 pm

So sorry Val! :yh_hugs :yh_hugs

guppy · Post by **guppy** » Thu Mar 15, 2007 6:33 pm

awwwwwwww val....:yh_hugs ..:-4

Lene · Post by **Lene** » Thu Mar 15, 2007 8:29 pm

Valerie and Paul, I am so very sorry to hear of your loss..I understand the pain,,,My heart goes out to you both.. Lene

Carl44 · Post by **Carl44** » Fri Mar 16, 2007 12:29 am

Hugs And Best Wishes From Jimbo:-6 :-6 :-1 :-1

pantsonfire321@aol.com · Fri Mar 16, 2007 12:35 am

Val :yh_hugs :yh_hugs :yh_hugs you gave Tamsen the best life ever . Take care sweety .

jennyswan · Post by **jennyswan** » Fri Mar 16, 2007 2:49 am

Val, I'm so sorry to hear about Tamsen. I remember always reading the little bits about her and she sounds like the best dog.

I truly believe in the survival of all souls when they are powerful to be loved and show love and I'm convinced that Tamsen is now resting on the other side and when she gets her energy back I'm sure you will feel her spirit looking out for you. She has not died, she has just gone into another room.

:-6

Mustang · Post by **Mustang** » Fri Mar 16, 2007 6:58 am

I am so sorry to learn of your loss Valerie. :-1

Take time to grieve your loss. You will never forget all the wonderful memories created over time with Tasmen nor the void felt by her absence. Tasmen knew she had the best life on this earth with you. She couldn't have asked for better parents.

Big hugs to you.

buttercup · Post by **buttercup** » Fri Mar 16, 2007 7:23 am

Oh Val i know just how you feel & cried my eyes out seeing your post, you may remember my pupster (lia) went to sleep on easter monday last year also aged 14. It still hurts like hell. If you ever need a chat in pm about it, im here for you hun, you know that right? Big hugs

RedGlitter · Post by **RedGlitter** » Fri Mar 16, 2007 9:27 am

Hey Valerie and Paul.

I thought of you both when I got up this morning...I know the first day after is a real witch. I don't have anything helpful to add although I wish I did. Just know I know how it is. And I'll be thinking about you.

minks · Post by **minks** » Fri Mar 16, 2007 10:09 am

I am so sorry to hear your beloved pooch has passed on. Seems through FG we got to know her so very well

Beams to you Valerie

Minks

LilacDragon · Post by **LilacDragon** » Fri Mar 16, 2007 5:34 pm

Oh, Val. I am so sorry that I missed this yesterday.

I have no witty words to share. Or even any that are adequate. I just wanted you to know that I am thinking of you and yours.

cherandbuster · Post by **cherandbuster** » Sat Mar 17, 2007 6:54 am

Hi Val my lovely friend:-4

As I stated in my email to you yesterday, I'm so glad you were able to give a lifetime of joy to each other -- that will stay in your heart always.

And if you need to share more (and I hope you do), please post pictures and stories of your girl so that we can enjoy them with you. A lot of us have come to know -- and love -- Tamsen quite well over the years.

We grieve with you and Paul. I know you just lost Paul's beloved cat recently, so the house must seem lonely and quiet. Stay here with us and we'll help you in any way we can.

We love you :-4

valerie · Post by **valerie** » Sat Mar 17, 2007 9:44 am

Thank you all for the kind words and thoughts.

We are very sad, but just trying to get by.

Kitty Lola is trying to keep us entertained and our minds off our

troubles.

cherandbuster · Post by **cherandbuster** » Sat Mar 17, 2007 10:36 am

valerie;577923 wrote: Kitty Lola is trying to keep us entertained and our minds off our troubles.

The Lovely Val :-4

And how is Lola doing with this tremendous loss? Is she coping well?

The most sad thing about living is that it always ends in dying. My theory is to 'ride the wave', to enjoy *what* you have *when* you have it.

That's the best we can do. And I'm truly pleased that Tamsen's life was filled with joy and love. :-6