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Victoria
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Post by Victoria »

Last night hubbys mobile rang he picked it up and after saying hello his face dropped

I heard him say 'she will phone you back' He hung up flipped off the TV and put his arms round me saying 'I so sorry its your brother...its happened again'

Poor thing he was trying to tell me that a second of my brothers has committed suicide..

Shock of course and slight disblief I mean after loosing my dad and my little brother the same way its getting to be a sick joke.

No details yet just the waiting game ...waiting for the formal ID, waiting for the inquest, waiting for the funeral and worst of all waiting for answers.

Answers to the million dollar question...... Why?
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abbey
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Post by abbey »

I'm so sorry. :yh_flower
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OpenMind
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Post by OpenMind »

This is terrible news, Victoria. I'm so sorry. Please accept my condolences.
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mrsK
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Post by mrsK »

Victoria;1141524 wrote: Last night hubbys mobile rang he picked it up and after saying hello his face dropped

I heard him say 'she will phone you back' He hung up flipped off the TV and put his arms round me saying 'I so sorry its your brother...its happened again'

Poor thing he was trying to tell me that a second of my brothers has committed suicide..

Shock of course and slight disblief I mean after loosing my dad and my little brother the same way its getting to be a sick joke.

No details yet just the waiting game ...waiting for the formal ID, waiting for the inquest, waiting for the funeral and worst of all waiting for answers.

Answers to the million dollar question...... Why?


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Post by scholle-kid »

My condolence to you and your family .
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Post by G#Gill »

Oh, Victoria, that is truly dreadful for you and your family - I am so sorry.

Yes indeed, the question is why ? I'm sending you as much strength as I can and my thoughts. XXX
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Post by Chezzie »

I have no soothing words hun just feelings :-4



So sorry:yh_flower
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Post by kazalala »

Victoria, that is so so sad, im so sorry for your loss and your grief:-4:-4:-4




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I'm so sorry :-4:-4
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Post by along-for-the-ride »

If I were there with you, I'd be giving you a hug. I'm so sorry for your loss.
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Betty Boop
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So sorry for your loss Victoria :yh_flower:yh_flower
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Post by spot »

This is horrifying news, Victoria. I hope you have plenty of people supporting you through the next year, there aren't any shocks worse than yours.
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Post by Peg »

I am so sorry Victoria. I wish there was something we could do or say to help ease the pain, but I know there isn't. Just know we are here for you.
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Odie
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Post by Odie »

This is just awful news, please, accept my condolences.
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minks
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Post by minks »

How tragic, my sincerest condolences. I hope you find solace coming onto FG if need be.

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I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. :yh_flower

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