another brother lost

Victoria · Post by **Victoria** » Sat Feb 21, 2009 12:03 am

Last night hubbys mobile rang he picked it up and after saying hello his face dropped

I heard him say 'she will phone you back' He hung up flipped off the TV and put his arms round me saying 'I so sorry its your brother...its happened again'

Poor thing he was trying to tell me that a second of my brothers has committed suicide..

Shock of course and slight disblief I mean after loosing my dad and my little brother the same way its getting to be a sick joke.

No details yet just the waiting game ...waiting for the formal ID, waiting for the inquest, waiting for the funeral and worst of all waiting for answers.

Answers to the million dollar question...... Why?

abbey · Post by **abbey** » Sat Feb 21, 2009 3:13 am

I'm so sorry. :yh_flower

OpenMind · Post by **OpenMind** » Sat Feb 21, 2009 3:24 am

This is terrible news, Victoria. I'm so sorry. Please accept my condolences.

mrsK · Post by **mrsK** » Sat Feb 21, 2009 3:36 am

Victoria;1141524 wrote: Last night hubbys mobile rang he picked it up and after saying hello his face dropped

I heard him say 'she will phone you back' He hung up flipped off the TV and put his arms round me saying 'I so sorry its your brother...its happened again'

Poor thing he was trying to tell me that a second of my brothers has committed suicide..

Shock of course and slight disblief I mean after loosing my dad and my little brother the same way its getting to be a sick joke.

No details yet just the waiting game ...waiting for the formal ID, waiting for the inquest, waiting for the funeral and worst of all waiting for answers.

Answers to the million dollar question...... Why?

I know exactly how you feel:-4:-4:-4

scholle-kid · Post by **scholle-kid** » Sat Feb 21, 2009 3:54 am

My condolence to you and your family .

G#Gill · Post by **G#Gill** » Sat Feb 21, 2009 4:01 am

Oh, Victoria, that is truly dreadful for you and your family - I am so sorry.

Yes indeed, the question is why ? I'm sending you as much strength as I can and my thoughts. XXX

Chezzie · Post by **Chezzie** » Sat Feb 21, 2009 5:05 am

I have no soothing words hun just feelings :-4

So sorry:yh_flower

kazalala · Post by **kazalala** » Sat Feb 21, 2009 5:32 am

Victoria, that is so so sad, im so sorry for your loss and your grief:-4:-4:-4

pinkchick · Post by **pinkchick** » Sat Feb 21, 2009 6:18 am

I'm so sorry :-4:-4

along-for-the-ride · Post by **along-for-the-ride** » Sat Feb 21, 2009 6:27 am

If I were there with you, I'd be giving you a hug. I'm so sorry for your loss.

Post by **Betty Boop** » Sat Feb 21, 2009 6:34 am

So sorry for your loss Victoria :yh_flower:yh_flower

Post by **spot** » Sat Feb 21, 2009 6:39 am

This is horrifying news, Victoria. I hope you have plenty of people supporting you through the next year, there aren't any shocks worse than yours.

Peg · Post by **Peg** » Sat Feb 21, 2009 7:27 am

I am so sorry Victoria. I wish there was something we could do or say to help ease the pain, but I know there isn't. Just know we are here for you.

Odie · Post by **Odie** » Sat Feb 21, 2009 8:55 am

This is just awful news, please, accept my condolences.

minks · Post by **minks** » Sat Feb 21, 2009 9:34 am

How tragic, my sincerest condolences. I hope you find solace coming onto FG if need be.

Beams of strength to you.:-6

chonsigirl · Post by **chonsigirl** » Sat Feb 21, 2009 12:54 pm

I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. :yh_flower