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Ok just an update on how this week went. Nothing special happened , as a matter of fact he was still walking around, our eyes met once , he still came to work at around 8 30 and thats it, no talk no hi no bye nothing. <br/>
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So i just decided to put it behind me ...

<t>Everyone has their own opinion on this but my opinion is this: Do not cheat, if you see your marriage going nowhere get a divorce and go from there.....since you are aware of your husbands cheating, thats automatically ground for divorce without waiting a 6 months or a year of separation ...

<t>Nomad;1148546 wrote: Ok. I took it as playing that game people play. I just meant straight forward honesty with eachother. Thats always a good place to start. It builds a foundation of trust.<br/>
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But someone has to break the ice. <br/>
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Could you e mail him a funny note or maybe at ...

haha that made me laugh out loud, now i fully understand!!! ty for explaining

so what does POGO mean ( i know of pogo sticks lol as in corn dog) , is there other meaning behind it?

oh definitely, there is over 100 lawyers at that firm, its a very large firm so he is not the only option.

<t>Thanks Patsy you are really sweet, and yes i will defintiely keep you all updated.<br/>
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Yes i am nice to all i come in contact with, and i am there only untill May that is when my internship is to start,and it will go on untill June 26th, from thereon i am free to look for a job even tho ...

<t>Patsy Warnick;1148183 wrote: Stella<br/>
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This is Nomad<br/>
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Nomad this is Stella - good to meet 'cha..<br/>
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serious - do not approach & make the "approach" easy.<br/>
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If you want a certain standard - you have to keep yours.<br/>
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I'm far from a prude - I lean more ...

<t>Nomad;1148180 wrote: What does work for it mean :-3<br/>
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Why cant 2 people just jump in without having to work for it ?<br/>
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lol typical of a guy... i dont want to have one night stand , now thats the type that needs no work, i meant that if he likes me and wants to make a ...

<t>Nomad;1148177 wrote: Oh.<br/>
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Im not a smooth operator.<br/>
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I thought she said she couldnt make eye contact.<br/>
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Maybe hes trying to find out if she knows hes alive.<br/>
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Maybe cleavage is the way to go.<br/>
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You can never go wrong with cleavage.<br/>
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<t>well as i stated i am very shy i could never aproach guy first, and if i could i dont know if i would, i am not desparate for a guy if we wants to take it a step further with me hes got to work for it, just because he is a lawyer doesnt make him any better in my eyes than if he was a courier guy ...

<t>yes i am definitely attracted to him, i do think about him alot and i really look forward to the day i go there..however i am being cautious as he is partner of the firm . If he is single with no wife or GF i wouldnt mind hooking up with him, however even if he has a GF i would definitely back ...

<t>Ty for your reply Gill, you know i have to agree with you, my first thought was is he doing this with other girls when they join, but i have to admit there are 2 other younger girls in the same side of the floor... rest of them are older and he only seems to be walking around my cube. I am afraid ...

<t>Hi everyone, <br/>
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I am new to this forum and i really need to see this through someone elses eyes so here goes my question.<br/>
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Recently i started volunteering in a law firm , i am in school for a legal assistant, now there is this one lawyer and well it goes from there...i go in ...