Great advice, thank you Jester!!!!!

<r>Joe;901914 wrote: Hello there.<br/>
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Might it be that you feel your life is somewhat dull? Maybe you drink to lower inhibitions, then feel able do do stuff you wouldn't do normally, which brings some excitement into it? But then when sobriety returns you question the value of ...

Thanks Carla....it has been great advice so far.

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I think there's a lot of truth to what you are saying. The thing is, I have had many experiences in life, have dated many men, have done the wild college thing, etc. but have truly found a man I want to spend my life with. That is the god's honest truth. I think you're right ...

Accountable;901882 wrote: *kisses her forehead*



You'll be fine. Now get out of my room.


LOL....ok! Not sure why your bed is so smelly, but glad to leave.

Good call. I think that is the answer too.

I had all but stopped since the big mistake I mentioned...but this last time I was out with coworkers, thinking it was "safe." Bad move.

Here's to diet coke and water!!!!!

<t>Hello...<br/>
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I am writing to get some honest advice about a problem, or pattern in my life, that I cannot seem to resolve.<br/>
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I'm in my late 20's, engaged to a man I love deeply, and am well-educated. My parents are wonderful, married for over 30 years, and I have a great family ...