<t>this a follow up as to whats been going on .<br/>
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my wife, has had alot of "me time" that have been overnights <br/>
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i am a bit pessimistic any way a little casual paranoia doesn't hurt.<br/>
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needless to say it's time for me to find my own way, she seems to have found an out let ...

<t>thanks for you posts in reply.<br/>
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i do take responsibility no ones finger is pointing at anyone else. <br/>
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i think that getting different perspective helps to see the picture <br/>
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3 people can all see the same thing or see differences.<br/>
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it's hard to know what to do ...

<t>after reading through comments i will give more detail so as to make my position clear.<br/>
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my wife and i both have had a face to face and we have both said, were better off on our own.<br/>
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i don't regret ever, regret makes you resent, so i feel everything can be a learning ...

<t>thanks for you comments<br/>
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my wife and i dated for 3 yrs before getting married, i was in the military and maybe she fell for the all together soldier who was starting life anew.but i was jaded by the military i was sick of being told what to do. but i can look back and say that was the ...

<t>please read before you judge.<br/>
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my wife and i have been married 3 yrs, but we have beenliving like roomates or siblings, we have no relationship other than sharing a last name.<br/>
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i have no way to express how bad i feel everyday, i feel like a house guest or a house sitter.<br ...