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by changinglanes
Sun Jan 20, 2008 3:33 am
Forum: Computers Internet
Topic: Linksys Router
Replies: 26
Views: 2823

Linksys Router

<t>I actually did not commit all of my time in setting up our home network. I found it to be simple because I read the cd with graphics displaying how to properly install it. I saved well over $150 doing it myself. A lot depends on what type of internet connection you have. 5 yrs. ago DSL didn't off...
by changinglanes
Sat Jan 19, 2008 9:40 pm
Forum: Electronic Gadgets Galore
Topic: Cell Phone Companies.
Replies: 27
Views: 5008

Cell Phone Companies.

<t>I started with Nextel for 5 yrs then opted out after my contract was up. I signed with Cingular and liked them until AT&T took over. My bill was suppose to be $50 a month but all I ever received was bills over $125 no matter what I did. So I gladly paid the $175 and went to T-Mobile. I get 4x...
by changinglanes
Sat Jan 19, 2008 9:30 pm
Forum: Computers Internet
Topic: Linksys Router
Replies: 26
Views: 2823

Linksys Router

<t>I set up my own home network with 4 desk tops and 3 laptops via wireless router.<br/> <br/> @ of the desktops required wireless cards very easy to install. When I set up my router I made sure to secure it with a password. If left unsecure any one near your home could get on your network not to me...
by changinglanes
Sat Jan 19, 2008 8:52 pm
Forum: Bereaved People
Topic: an awful thing
Replies: 8
Views: 2040

an awful thing

<r><E>:)</E> Thank you all for the support. I haven't spoke to any of them nor emailed or excepted any email. Beware of clicking on those digital signature keys...... or any picture via web. I have really learned a lot and people can write a Trojan script and hide it behind anything without you even...
by changinglanes
Mon Jan 14, 2008 1:49 am
Forum: Bereaved People
Topic: an awful thing
Replies: 8
Views: 2040

an awful thing

<t>I am feeling better and have made a lot of security changes and didn't mind handing over my computer for a couple of days plus the 2 added flash drives and an email account on another server where I know this all orginated from. I was told it all is more than enough to hang him. He did it himself...
by changinglanes
Sun Jan 13, 2008 4:47 am
Forum: Bereaved People
Topic: an awful thing
Replies: 8
Views: 2040

an awful thing

<t>I have not been posting because my cousin hacked my pc and was sending links to here to read of me....like he could even prove it was me. I have been absent and my pc redone and now have a constant security so it won't happen again.<br/> <br/> I felt as violated as someone breaking into my home a...
by changinglanes
Wed Jan 09, 2008 1:37 am
Forum: General Chit Chat
Topic: Husband business trips
Replies: 12
Views: 1226

Husband business trips

True, but it feels good being able to do things on my own.
by changinglanes
Tue Jan 08, 2008 6:20 pm
Forum: General Chit Chat
Topic: Husband business trips
Replies: 12
Views: 1226

Husband business trips

<t>Luckily we had a water detector. The second water touches the bottom of the alarm it goes off. Our basement doesn't leak it has hole in floor (storm drain) and when we had our swimming pool built in it messed up the way water was suppose to drain so we had to add a submersible pump to pump out th...
by changinglanes
Tue Jan 08, 2008 4:53 pm
Forum: General Chit Chat
Topic: Pubic hair
Replies: 68
Views: 32657

Pubic hair

Someone has to be obviously bored to tears to even care about other's pubic hair.

To funny.
by changinglanes
Tue Jan 08, 2008 4:50 pm
Forum: General Chit Chat
Topic: Husband business trips
Replies: 12
Views: 1226

Husband business trips

<t>I am just elated right now because I actually installed a new submersible sump pump all by myself and saved my basement from a major flood. I've never done this before but just diconnected the cooper pipe and kept the pump attatched to it then put everything on the new pump just as it was on the ...
by changinglanes
Tue Jan 08, 2008 10:26 am
Forum: Presidential Elections Campaigns
Topic: Barack Obama: What's up with the ears?
Replies: 124
Views: 9665

Barack Obama: What's up with the ears?

Not sure either. What's up with Oprah & him. That was in poor taste in my opinion.

Speaking of ears....kind of reminds me of Kurt Bush before he had them surgically pinned back.
by changinglanes
Tue Jan 08, 2008 10:21 am
Forum: Friends, Relationships, Advice
Topic: Dysfunctional familes overcoming them
Replies: 8
Views: 6680

Dysfunctional familes overcoming them

<t>You are far from alone Dear. I endured the exact same thing. I had a heart to heart with my step dad 2 days ago and got everything out in the open and it helped a lot. I will maintain contact with him but the rest of the family no longer exist to me. It's only been 2 months and I encouraged him t...
by changinglanes
Tue Jan 08, 2008 10:11 am
Forum: Current Political Events
Topic: Hillary Cries on TV. Could she really handle the job/
Replies: 96
Views: 17049

Hillary Cries on TV. Could she really handle the job/

Anyone for a xanax, cocktail.....BJ? This could go on until next Nov.2.
by changinglanes
Tue Jan 08, 2008 10:08 am
Forum: Friends, Relationships, Advice
Topic: Dysfunctional familes overcoming them
Replies: 8
Views: 6680

Dysfunctional familes overcoming them

<t>I think doing what we need for our own being is the best any of us can do for ourselves and our children. <br/> <br/> Bad enough we have to protect ourselves from people out in the world muchless our families.<br/> <br/> Besides who wants to roll around with a bunch of pigs and get as dirty as th...
by changinglanes
Tue Jan 08, 2008 10:02 am
Forum: Current Political Events
Topic: Hillary Cries on TV. Could she really handle the job/
Replies: 96
Views: 17049

Hillary Cries on TV. Could she really handle the job/

<t>I think did a good job at being Prez. He rarely took a vacation while in office and worked non stop. His uh oh.....the big bad ultimate sin.....a BJ.<br/> <br/> Look what Bush has done to us and he didn't have the courtesy of even providing each American a jar a vaseline........before he screwed ...
by changinglanes
Tue Jan 08, 2008 9:48 am
Forum: Current Political Events
Topic: Hillary Cries on TV. Could she really handle the job/
Replies: 96
Views: 17049

Hillary Cries on TV. Could she really handle the job/

It's a form of abuse and she was disgraced by his actions and humiliated. Abuse comes in many forms. I don't care if my husband was Prez or not his ass would be out the door. That balls. I would not want public pity. Strong women do strong things like "NOT BEING A DOORMAT."
by changinglanes
Tue Jan 08, 2008 9:20 am
Forum: Current Political Events
Topic: Hillary Cries on TV. Could she really handle the job/
Replies: 96
Views: 17049

Hillary Cries on TV. Could she really handle the job/

If a husband cheats and disgraces you publicly isn't that a form of abuse?
by changinglanes
Tue Jan 08, 2008 9:16 am
Forum: Friends, Relationships, Advice
Topic: Dysfunctional familes overcoming them
Replies: 8
Views: 6680

Dysfunctional familes overcoming them

I appreciate and feel you are right in your words of wisdom.

I do have some really good people in my life that does care about me and would do anything for me and I them. It something that came about naturally too.
by changinglanes
Tue Jan 08, 2008 9:10 am
Forum: General Chit Chat
Topic: what do I/we really want ???
Replies: 26
Views: 1739

what do I/we really want ???

Changed my mind.........a sump pump installed ASAP. Husband didn't have time had to catch plane to London will be gone 7 days and I will be damn if I am bailing out any more water. I'm exhausted. I will try installing one myself...haha that should be a site.
by changinglanes
Tue Jan 08, 2008 9:06 am
Forum: The Kitchen
Topic: What are you having or had for dinner?
Replies: 3464
Views: 249287

What are you having or had for dinner?

Corn Beef Potatoes, Carrots with cabbage. My daughter's favorite.
by changinglanes
Tue Jan 08, 2008 8:58 am
Forum: General Chit Chat
Topic: I can't find anything when I need it
Replies: 15
Views: 1870

I can't find anything when I need it

How about garbage kids and hubby's hand you while in the car or out and about?

Do I somehow favor the looks of a garbage can? Or do they think I secrectly have one no one but them can see?
by changinglanes
Tue Jan 08, 2008 8:56 am
Forum: Friends, Relationships, Advice
Topic: Dysfunctional familes overcoming them
Replies: 8
Views: 6680

Dysfunctional familes overcoming them

<t>I am 43. Recently after my mother passed I became the prime target. Not uncommon because I moved away long ago. My mom kept everyone else in their places. Now with her gone it is a free for all. <br/> <br/> I won't be their victim and have opted out of their sick demented ploys. Now I get to sit ...
by changinglanes
Tue Jan 08, 2008 8:33 am
Forum: Current Political Events
Topic: Hillary Cries on TV. Could she really handle the job/
Replies: 96
Views: 17049

Hillary Cries on TV. Could she really handle the job/

RedGlitter;755256 wrote: I have faith that the right person could turn us back around again. But I'm not so sure that right person is even running.


Thank you thank you thank you!
by changinglanes
Tue Jan 08, 2008 8:32 am
Forum: Current Political Events
Topic: Hillary Cries on TV. Could she really handle the job/
Replies: 96
Views: 17049

Hillary Cries on TV. Could she really handle the job/

We all do right or wrong. I'm just undecided at this point. I watched gov. tv last night and everyone one of them would not address a question they danced around it as a means to avoid answering it. I hate that.
by changinglanes
Tue Jan 08, 2008 8:26 am
Forum: Current Political Events
Topic: Hillary Cries on TV. Could she really handle the job/
Replies: 96
Views: 17049

Hillary Cries on TV. Could she really handle the job/

I just see what a mess our country is in and I have no idea if anyone can fix the damage Bush has rendered. It just kep getting worse.

I don't feel Hilary can do the job nor more than Obama and Oprah by his side didn't help matters.

Rudy.......he makes me laugh.
by changinglanes
Tue Jan 08, 2008 8:22 am
Forum: Current Political Events
Topic: Hillary Cries on TV. Could she really handle the job/
Replies: 96
Views: 17049

Hillary Cries on TV. Could she really handle the job/

<t>RedGlitter;755241 wrote: I disagree. Here's why. If I am a whore or a thief in my personal life, is that still a separate entity or does it bespeak my character? If I cheat on my husband how can I be loyal to my country when I couldn't even be loyal to him? <br/> <br/> . <br/> <br/> <br/> True. I...
by changinglanes
Tue Jan 08, 2008 8:19 am
Forum: General Chit Chat
Topic: what do I/we really want ???
Replies: 26
Views: 1739

what do I/we really want ???

<t>I think we chose our own battles to better lives. I advocate for children with learning disabilities and pushing "The Mental Health Parity Law" corporations found loop holes around the old law that enabled corporations to put a limit on mental health a person could receive. Imagine having a child...
by changinglanes
Tue Jan 08, 2008 8:11 am
Forum: Current Political Events
Topic: Hillary Cries on TV. Could she really handle the job/
Replies: 96
Views: 17049

Hillary Cries on TV. Could she really handle the job/

<t>1. Her personal life should not effect her professional life. Seperate enitities.<br/> <br/> 2. Can she really do the job? <br/> <br/> 3. Is America really ready or even want a woman for prez in these days and times?<br/> <br/> 4. why is this such a big deal when everything is still up in the air...
by changinglanes
Tue Jan 08, 2008 8:03 am
Forum: General Chit Chat
Topic: I can't find anything when I need it
Replies: 15
Views: 1870

I can't find anything when I need it

My husband's staple gun is behind the master bath door, we recently rnovated it....6 months ago.
by changinglanes
Tue Jan 08, 2008 7:34 am
Forum: Current Political Events
Topic: Hillary Cries on TV. Could she really handle the job/
Replies: 96
Views: 17049

Hillary Cries on TV. Could she really handle the job/

To be honest I don't like any of the front runners.
by changinglanes
Tue Jan 08, 2008 7:33 am
Forum: Current Political Events
Topic: Hillary Cries on TV. Could she really handle the job/
Replies: 96
Views: 17049

Hillary Cries on TV. Could she really handle the job/

<t>I accept that you like Hillary but you'll have to accept a lot of people don't.<br/> <br/> That is just part of life. Not everyone likes everyone and we must respect everyone's opinion even if we disagree. I have a saying I tell my daughter when we don't see eye to eye. "Let's just agree to disag...
by changinglanes
Tue Jan 08, 2008 7:23 am
Forum: General Chit Chat
Topic: I can't find anything when I need it
Replies: 15
Views: 1870

I can't find anything when I need it

I use to think I was losing it.......Adult onset ADD. I lost 4 cell phones, 3 pairs eyeglasses and 2 debit cards, 2 bills a month and misplace jewlery and whatever else. Now I just forget my head from time to time. The meds made all the difference. Who would have thought ADD.
by changinglanes
Tue Jan 08, 2008 7:17 am
Forum: General Chit Chat
Topic: Husband business trips
Replies: 12
Views: 1226

Husband business trips

It was funny he is telling me what to do on the phone and I dropped the phone in the well. LMAO........
by changinglanes
Tue Jan 08, 2008 7:14 am
Forum: General Chit Chat
Topic: what do I/we really want ???
Replies: 26
Views: 1739

what do I/we really want ???

<t>Peace, sanity, the ability to ignore ignorance and rise above those who want to drag me down. Happiness, not just for me but for everyone especially on this board. To help other and make a difference (positive) in the lives of others.<br/> <br/> My oldest daughter to realizes she doesn't know it ...
by changinglanes
Tue Jan 08, 2008 6:59 am
Forum: General Chit Chat
Topic: Husband business trips
Replies: 12
Views: 1226

Husband business trips

Ha......The sump pump in my basement went out and it is starting to flood and now husband is on his way home having to delay his flight. I don't know about sump pumps am I suppose to?

Hold on maybe there is a recipe in my cook book.
by changinglanes
Tue Jan 08, 2008 6:30 am
Forum: General Chit Chat
Topic: Husband business trips
Replies: 12
Views: 1226

Husband business trips

Glad I made you laugh Red. You deserve much laughter in your life.
by changinglanes
Tue Jan 08, 2008 6:28 am
Forum: Friends, Relationships, Advice
Topic: Dysfunctional familes overcoming them
Replies: 8
Views: 6680

Dysfunctional familes overcoming them

<t>I came from a highly dysfunctional family but have broke away also known as an (IP). I was marked as the escape goat but because I continued to question abnormal behaviors of family members I broke thier cycle of targeting me.<br/> <br/> Have other's dealt with this and how?<br/> <br/> I can have...
by changinglanes
Tue Jan 08, 2008 1:53 am
Forum: General Chit Chat
Topic: Husband business trips
Replies: 12
Views: 1226

Husband business trips

<r>Today my husband leaves fir England on business for 1 week. It is a yearly trip but nevertheless I hate it with all the crap going on. I'm sure all be fine but we wives still tend to worry (part of our genetic make up).<br/> <br/> When he gets back he will be home 2 days then laeave for Chicago f...
by changinglanes
Tue Jan 08, 2008 1:26 am
Forum: Current Events
Topic: Taking the war to Pakistan.
Replies: 17
Views: 1499

Taking the war to Pakistan.

<t>In my opinion Iranian prez was clever at diverting US attention to wards him. Our real concerns should be focused on Pakistan. They present the most danger to USA.<br/> <br/> I knew (I'm no rocket scientist) upon the return of Pakistani Prime Minister Benazir Bhutto would be assassinated within i...
by changinglanes
Sat Jan 05, 2008 9:20 am
Forum: Bereaved People
Topic: How to begin moving forward
Replies: 8
Views: 2552

How to begin moving forward

<t>Any emails from them go straight to spam folder and are deleted now. I just keep my cell off since I am always home these days. I have a landline and machine picks up after 2nd ring so I never answer it. I just return calls so long as it isn't them.<br/> <br/> When it intially sunk in not having ...
by changinglanes
Sat Jan 05, 2008 12:10 am
Forum: Bereaved People
Topic: Bereaved People
Replies: 115
Views: 14808

Bereaved People

<t>You're lucky. No one called me to inform me she was hospitalized the day before she died. I could have been there to talk and see her but they stold that from me.<br/> <br/> They called me 5 hours after she died. It was to hurt me and I will never forgive them for it. She relied on me for making ...
by changinglanes
Sat Jan 05, 2008 12:04 am
Forum: Introductions
Topic: New tend do things backwards
Replies: 3
Views: 639

New tend do things backwards

Thank you so much. You can call me CL if you like.



Thanks for the welcome and I am blessed both are safeand the other is recovering. We are very lucky and thankful.
by changinglanes
Fri Jan 04, 2008 11:03 pm
Forum: Bereaved People
Topic: Bereaved People
Replies: 115
Views: 14808

Bereaved People

<t>I am sorry about your loss. I think it hits a daughter in the worst way when losing their mother. I know how you feel. I miss mine so much and not picking up that phone every day to call her is the hardest. Not being able to seek that motherly advice and the laughter we shared tears me up. Christ...
by changinglanes
Fri Jan 04, 2008 9:42 pm
Forum: Introductions
Topic: New tend do things backwards
Replies: 3
Views: 639

New tend do things backwards

<r><EMOJI seq="1f914" tseq="1f914">:thinking:</EMOJI><br/> <br/> I wish I could introduce myself by given name but I discovered google does bring up links to certain posts related to an inquiry another makes. I cannot risk a libel suit and more problems (like they could get any worse) right now.<br/...
by changinglanes
Fri Jan 04, 2008 8:58 pm
Forum: Bereaved People
Topic: Has anyone resorted to seeing a shirnk?
Replies: 2
Views: 1945

Has anyone resorted to seeing a shirnk?

<r><br/> <br/> <EMOJI seq="1f914" tseq="1f914">:thinking:</EMOJI> After trying bereavement therapy which was of no help at all I researched some psychiatrists in my area who take my BSBC. I was fortunate to find a really good one. I stated on 1st session "NO Sugar Coating be upfront and straight to ...
by changinglanes
Fri Jan 04, 2008 6:39 pm
Forum: Bereaved People
Topic: How to begin moving forward
Replies: 8
Views: 2552

How to begin moving forward

<t>I could also ignore and never respond to them. They are just trying to transfer their misery onto me. With me out of the equation eventually they will turn on each other. They crave drama and the need to hurt someone.<br/> <br/> Then when it happens I can just softly say to myself "There is a God...
by changinglanes
Fri Jan 04, 2008 6:08 am
Forum: Bereaved People
Topic: just lost mom
Replies: 35
Views: 6747

just lost mom

<t>I know this. My daughter's are just upset over picture books my mother made of their lives since birth. <br/> <br/> The entire situation sucks but there is nothing we can do but move on and plant a flower garden in her honor every spring and donate money to her cause in her name.<br/> <br/> It's ...
by changinglanes
Thu Jan 03, 2008 7:38 pm
Forum: Bereaved People
Topic: just lost mom
Replies: 35
Views: 6747

just lost mom

It is alright. I understand.
by changinglanes
Thu Jan 03, 2008 7:37 pm
Forum: Bereaved People
Topic: just lost mom
Replies: 35
Views: 6747

just lost mom

Where and do I find to pay for membership to a forum.? I'm more than happy to do so as I understand the confusion. Please note I am learning about things new daily. I don't mean to confuse as I am confused and seeking clairity.

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