Chera, cant answer that at this point in time, right now i'm as confused as a baby racoon. The best answer i can give is that the answer changes repeatedly , right now i havent a clue. betrayal or the possibility there of, is a hard pill to swallow

dg ,

i very much am offended , for 20 years i have Never question where, what or why on anything she has ever done. Until the oddities started

AM i Perfect?

ABSOLUTELY NOT !

BUT I HAVE NEVER CHEATED

<t>chera its 2-3 hours at a time has been as long as 5 hours ,<br/>
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nomad, more than i'm letting on? not letting on anything, i know what i suspect, dont have proof of anything, if so i wouldnt be spilling my guts here.<br/>
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end a relationship... well the way i was brought up is, once a ...

fully aware weeder thats why i've already been tested and gone back to "protection" when the rare act occurs

not following your last nomad????

Ladies and Gents,

I must go to work now. I will check back in the morning. opinions are appreciated

sheryl, i'm sorta being pressed to be friends also, yes i think i know the guy

mrs k , i can only hope....i dont know

Nomad, i really do not know. things have seemed perfectly fine until recently. my grown son pointed out that his mother was showing strange behavior. then i began paying attention to small things

Nomad, trying to be cool, hard for me at best but i am trying!

Plan is simple:

proof required

computer is being monitored

Phone bills are being forwarded to my email

Going to hire a PI

My intuitions are usually dead on.....

thats why i'm questioning things

flop, thanks, but fully aware of that one i work in the medical field

actually done both expressed as cocern several times, finally told her i thought she was screwin around.

If i ever prove it, i'm outta here

yes direct approach results in blatant hostility

no i'm not the insecure or paranoid type so with me that IS NOT an issue

Type a personality here

<t>I'm male married 20+ years;<br/>
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Concerns are long unexplained periods of "out of touch"<br/>
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cant contact in any fashion.<br/>
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sudden wieght loss, <br/>
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$100's in new clothes<br/>
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new sexy underwear<br/>
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neglects house<br/>
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new need of extended periods ...

Folks if this isnt the place someone just delete this post, and I apologize in advance.

Has anyone here had to deal with a cheating spouse?

If so what clued you in?

I have strong cause for my concerns...

Thanks