<t>I don't know why I used the word 'bothering' - I don't really think it does, but that was the word I used. I guess I'm just petrified of talking about something like this. I think she;d laugh first and think I was taking the p a bit. I'm just worried she might flip if she thought I was serious or ...

<t>Hi there. First post on a forum, so bear with me.<br/>
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My name is Pat and I am 39, very nearly 40. My wife is 33. We've been together 8 years and got married last year. We've been fortunate enough to build a successful business and will be emigrating soon with enough money to relax for a ...