<t>this is more than likely going to sound a tad crazy but I have found over the last 2 days a strenght I thought was well gone,I think knowing I could never feel hurt like that again is making me fnd a person in myself I had lost years ago thru death of parent and total change in life.My husband ...

<t>So peeps after spending the last 2 days crying,being sick and generally wanting to wake up from the bad dream we have talked and talked again but I still dont feel in the right frame of mind to come to any decisions....ahh if only we cud go back to when the tough decisions was what colour crayon ...

[QUOTE=Odie;1318109]I'm so sorry jule, it happened to me a year ago

I am so scared my children are my world(3 of them) and I honestly dont think I can do this on my own

My husband of 11 years has just told me he has been having an affair for nearly 2 years,my world is destroyed.